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October 2013 Moms
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Glad that's over
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So, I had the discussion with DH about my maternity leave not being paid. He actually took it really well. He said it was out of our control and we would be fine. It probably didn't hurt that I cried because I was so nervous!! Gotta love these hormones sometimes!!!
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Re: Glad that's over
He is definately what keeps me going no matter what. He's the best!!
No, I'm not scared. It's just that he really takes on that role of 'I have to provide for my family' and when something like this comes it it adds to the stress. I just like to make his life easier, not add stress to it. So, that makes it a not so fun conversation for me. But he's awesome and things always seem to work out for us somehow.
why are you nervous about having a conversation with your husband? does he throw you around?
That's a serious thing to say. Especially to someone who comes from a previous abusive relationship. No, he does not. He is the best thing that ever happened to me and if you actually took the time to read my previous reaponse you would see that the only thing is that I don't like putting stress on his shoulders. But thanks for asking.
so you were in an abusive relationship, and now are with a domineering man who you are still scared to talk to? seems like you really moved ahead here!
also, how did he not know you were changing jobs???
You are a serious piece of work. He is no such thing and I think it's really rude of you to say something like that. It was an uncomfortable concersation that I was dreading. That is it. Yes, he knew I was changing jobs. He is actually very happy about it because I was not happy in my last school. I posted about it on here because this is supposed to be a place of support and I have noticed a few people saying that they were teachers as well. I think you need to call it a night. You have no idea what I've been through or what my relationship with my DH is like so stop making assumptions about it. Like my mother once told me, it only makes u look like an a!!
Oh boy. 12 posts and going to GBCB already. Boo hoo.