Hi everyone! I don't come on the bump much anymore, but I could use some help/advice. My DD is 3 1/2 yrs old. I have been trying to potty training her since she turned 2 with NO success! She has NEVER peed/pooped in the potty even once! I seriously have tried EVERYTHING!!! This past January, when she turned 3 I gave it a try again. She wound up being in the hospital! She was holding her pee/poop & was having severe belly pain. Had to give her miralax for a while to get her regular again. She started out holding her pee/poop until she would sleep for naps/bedtime. Then she even stopped doing that. The day she went in the hospital she had been holding her pee for 17hrs!!! He poop for about 5 days!! It was crazy!! I then stopped for a while. In March, I tried again. She started to hold her pee again, so I stopped. I didn't want a repeat of last time! Here we are, in June, and I am trying again! She woke up at 7:30am saying she peed, I took her diaper off & put underwear on her. It is now 1:40 & she has yet to go! She has had lots to drink. I know she has to go because she keeps holding herself! She has sat on the potty a couple times & nothing. She will sit there & say, "It's coming out! Here it comes!" But nothing comes! Then she tells me it is too hard & won't come out! I will be putting her in a pull up for nap time, which is around 2 or so. She will probably pee when she sleeps. I just don't know what to do anymore! Everyone keeps telling me she will go when she is ready! I feel bad because there are certain activities she can't participate in because she isn't potty trained! I just signed her up for preschool & they told me she can come, but only with a pull up & they will sit her on the potty while she is there. This is crazy! When she does wear a diaper or pull up & pees/poops, it doesn't even phase her! She will sit in it all day long! She will not have an accident & go in her underwear! She did it once like a year ago & has never done it again! Am I doing something wrong? I don't even know if there is anything else for me to do! UGH! Thanks for any help you can give me!! Sorry this was so long!