I tried this with my first and it did absolutely nothing to make me me comfortable. I would like to try it again, because so many women swear by it, but I'm wondering if maybe I didn't do it 'right'. Dh filled the tub, and it was only lukewarm, and it was only deep enough to cover half of my stomach.
I'm sure depth makes a difference, what about temp? Should I be laying down on my back or side? Should I e sitting?
I realize this may all seem silly and like I know nothing, and I guess I don't! But, id like to try to make it work better for me this time!
January 2009: Goodbye TR (13 weeks)
February 2010: Welcome DD1!
March 2011: Welcome DD2!

Re: Water laboring?
With A., they couldn't fill the thing fast enough. The water was definitely pretty warm. I don't remember the temp., although I know my MW monitors it. We used a fishy kiddie pool that my MW recommended. She prefers that whatever you use is at least 22" deep (I think it's 22").
A normal bathtub would neither have been deep enough nor spacious enough for me to get comfortable.
As for position, do what is comfortable. I was actually mostly reclining back against the side between contractions and kind of side lying during contractions.
I fully plan to have the tub ready to go for this LO in case I want it.
I think part of my problem the first time was I was so self concious. I felt really weird having other people see me in a bathtub.
I labored at home in the tub for a while. We have a tiny tub and I'm a plus sized 5'6" woman. But the tub was great.
I used a wet handtowel on my belly. We kept pouring water over the towel to keep it warm. Otherwise my belly was barely in the water. I kept the water on and the drain open so the water never got cold.
I loved the water. I would love to attempt a water birth this time. But my midwife only delivers at one hospital, and that hospital doesn't do water deliveries. The trade off is that I LOVE my midwife and the hospital is 100% supportive of every other facet of the natural births that I want.
Engaged 10/2/1202
BFP (a lil quicker than expected) 12/7/2012
Married to my best friend 12/24/2012
Beautiful baby girl arrived 8/15/2013
BFP #2 3/13/2016