Hi moms!
Hi Workin' Mamas!
Our editors have a few questions for you and we would LOVE your feedback for other moms who are entering this stage:
-How much maternity time did you take from work, if any? Why did you chose that amount of time, or was that the time given to you?
-What circumstances impacted how much time you took?
-How much maternity time was paid?
You can respond here or email community@thebump.com with "Maternity Time" in the subject with your story!
Thank you!
Re: Maternity Leave Questions
For our situation 8 weeks of maternity leave was paid and 4 weeks was unpaid. I'm the higher earner in our family so it was essential for me to go back to work.
-How much maternity time did you take from work, if any? 4 months
-Why did you chose that amount of time, or was that the time given to you? It consisted of my given leave (6 weeks for vaginal delivery or 8 weeks for c-section) plus accrued annual leave
-What circumstances impacted how much time you took? I took as much as I could. I stretched it out by working from home 1-2 days per week.
-How much maternity time was paid? All of it. I am not allowed to take unpaid leave in my profession. If I was allowed to take unpaid leave, I would have stayed home at least another 2 months.
I had LO right after graduating, so no job yet or paid time off.
I ended up getting a job right after I started applying when LO was about 5 weeks old. In a tight job market for new grads I had to take it and wound up starting work when my daughter was 8 weeks old. My new job has great benefits for maternity (but I can't use them until April 2015). I plan on having our next one soon after that and will be taking the max amount (I think it's 16 weeks at 70% of pay, which I pay extra for this benefit out of my checks. Otherwise it would be 16 weeks at 50%).
My husband took 5 weeks off at full salary. He had time banked up and used it. That was great since I wasn't working and it was nice to have him home, especially the week before I had her and right after birth.
I am paid through employment insurance while on leave. It works out to about 40 of what I normally make.
My decision to take the full year was based on my goal of bfing for one year and the fact that my husband was able to be of for six weeks by using vacation and overtime do he didn't want to take any of the time.
I was able to take 6 weeks of maternity leave. I work for a small law firm and it was the maximum amount of time my firm could afford to have me gone. I had previously been on bed rest for the 2 months leading up to my LO's birth, so all in all I was gone 3.5 months. I wish I could have taken more, but I couldn't afford to live without a paycheck.
All of my leave time, both for my bed rest and my maternity leave, was paid. Thankfully.
-How much maternity time did you take from work, if any? Why did you chose that amount of time, or was that the time given to you?
I was off for a total of 20 weeks Dr took me off one 6 weeks before due date, I was paid through my work for that six weeks plus an additional 3 weeks of salary pay. I used 3 weeks vacation pay and the 6 weeks pay through California disability for family bonding time. I then took an additional 2 weeks unpaid leave.
-What circumstances impacted how much time you took?
I took the maximum amount of time we could financially afford. I would have liked to take more but it wasn't feasible.
-How much maternity time was paid?
I am a salaried manager and we have up to 90 days paid medical leave. Total of 77 days were paid through my work and 6 weeks paid through disability for bonding time.
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I took 15 weeks off, I was given 12 weeks paid and the option to take an additional 8 weeks unpaid (for a total of 20 weeks). Our decision to take the additional 3 weeks unpaid was based on my husbands work schedule (he is a freelancer/self employed) and how busy he was, which went hand and hand with how much we could afford for me to take off unpaid.
-How much maternity time did you take from work, if any? Why did you chose that amount of time, or was that the time given to you?
I took the full 12 weeks that I could take based on FMLA, but I came back before 12 weeks and stretched out the remaining leave days so that I could be PT for awhile. I think maternity leave should be longer. I also think it would be nice if it started at 38 or 39 weeks and still went for at least 12 weeks after the birth.
-What circumstances impacted how much time you took?
I wanted to take as much as I could, even though it meant taking unpaid time.
-How much maternity time was paid?
Six weeks paid via a combo of short term disability and accrued sick time for the first two; 8 weeks b/c I had a c-section with the third. The remaining weeks were mostly unpaid other than holidays. I could have used vacation time for extra pay, but I preferred to save my days and still have those days to take off during the rest of the year.
-How much maternity time did you take from work, if any? Why did you chose that amount of time, or was that the time given to you?
My work gives us 13 weeks full paid time. We have the option of taking up to a year and our job will still be here when we return- however, after the 13 weeks, you're either using your own time off/vacation or you won't be getting paid. I wish I could have used the one year option, but sadly DH's and my financial scenario won't allow it.
-What circumstances impacted how much time you took?
How much time work gave vs the need to get paid- so when their time frame was up, back to work I went.
-How much maternity time was paid?
The full 13 weeks.
I took 12 weeks of leave. 6 weeks was paid through Short Term Disability at 100% of my salary, 6 weeks was FMLA. Before I even had the baby, I decided I'd stop working at 40 weeks, no matter what. I worked it out with my boss instead to just work from home from 40 weeks until 41 weeks 3 days.
I chose that amount of time because it was the max I could take. With my older daughter, I didn't take the max and I ended up regretting it. A big factor was that I already suspected I wanted to quit. So I had no problems with taking a long leave. But I've since returned to work and it hasn't been as terrible as I remember it being.