Years between pregnancies??

Lilly092 · July 2013

Hello to all "AMA's". Advanced maternal age I'm new here. Just barely pregnant and starting this journey. So far just sore boobies, cramping and major fatigue with a bit of nausea here and there. Is constantly being irritated with your husband a symptom? Haha. Did anyone else go more than 5 years between pregnancies? This is my second. I have a 7 yr old and am very curious how my body is going to handle pregnancy nearly 8 years later!
Hope everyone is enjoying their pregnant summer!!

mlamping · July 2013

Welcome. I am only 3 years apart, but still find it hard. A lot harder this time around. Good luck!

LucyRicardo3 · July 2013

congrats and welcome!

I would agree that constant irritation is a symptom. I'm typically a laid-back person but I've had the worst mood swings already. My previous pregnancies I couldn't keep anything down at this stage, but I've only had mild nausea so far. However, I am having to take progesterone supplements because my levels were low at my labwork 2 weeks ago so that may be the reason thus far. I'm afraid the barf monster is around the corner, though..

I had 8 years between my first two and it was a big difference in fatigue and aches/pains. He is the best big brother and they are so co-dependent now. It was a little strange the first year because I felt like I had two kids that were an Only Child, if you will. He was in extra curricular activities like scouting and choir, as well as I drove him to and from school. All of those things were a challenge to manage while a little sleep deprived with a BF'ing baby in tow, but we survived. The only thing I'd change how I went about things, is that I wish I'd been able to know how to plan meals ahead and efficiently use a crock pot. It would have made some things a little less stressful.

Lilly092 · July 2013

That really helps, thanks. I have often thought about how it's going to work with driving my son around to school / activities with an infant in tow. People do it all the time right? But as you know after having only 1 child for so many years its hard to grasp how adding another one will effect the family.
In another post I was curious to see how moms continue to function with other kids while suffering from morning sickness. How did you do it? I'm so afraid everything is going to fall apart work home house family time if I get super sick. Did it work out ok for you? What will you do this pregnancy if the "barf monster" returns?

Barbercharm · July 2013

Hi! I had 3 kids in 3.5 years and now 6 years later I'm pregnant with number 4! I have noticed a big difference in my energy level this time around. And my patience isn't as good as it used to be..

Barbercharm · July 2013

The 1st trimester blahs were a lot easier to handle with 3 older kids because they were understanding and helped out when I needed it and let me rest when I needed to. Good training for when the little comes!

Ohiomama2013 · July 2013

My girl will be 9 by the time my son is born. She was great at being understanding with the nausea and fatigue during the first tri. Almost like a little mother hen. She'd pat my back when I was heaving and learned not to fart around me during that time! We also had a lot of cuddle time after school with a bit more cartoons to accommodate my fatigue.

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playball13 · July 2013

My son is 5 so I am right at the 5 year mark. Honestly, my body is handling this pregnancy way better. I'm actually somewhat enjoying it this time around

Jaytee501 · July 2013

Constant irritation with husband is a symptom/side effect, yes. lol

I'm 40. It's been 2 years since I was pregnant with DS. I think I was pretty tired then and now there's a toddler in the mix soooo....

So age and toddlerhood conspire!

RNmommyof2 · July 2013

Our first two are 9.5 years apart. It was kind of great because our eldest was really understanding, didn't have any jealousy and has been a huge help with her little sister. There will be only 22.5 months between #2 and this baby. It's going to be a far different ride this time.

Lilly092 · July 2013

Wow it's nice to know I'm not the only one. Most of my friends are done having babies so I really appreciate this "cyber support" !!

cyndilouwho77 · July 2013

I have a 13yr old and a 10yr old...so basically about 10.5 years between this one and my last. This pregnancy is kicking my butt, at 25 everything was easy and I felt great now nothing seems to function right and I just cant stop being tired all the time. I also work on my feet and run my kids all over for activities, its going to be a roller coaster when this baby comes

mamajess68 · July 2013

My kids are 15, 12 and 4, but will be almost 5 when this LO is born in September. This pregnancy is kicking my butt in a way that I've never experienced, of course, I am almost 45 years old so that my have something to do with it. There are big advantages to having older kids when you have a baby and I've found very few drawbacks. Yes, it is more challenging for you personally when the baby comes and you can't just sleep in after a sleepless night because you have to get the other one(s) off to school and other activities, but that passes fairly quickly. Older kids are a great help and it's an invaluable life lesson for them to experience. It's all quite doable - you'll be great!!!

DezignedByFaith · July 2013

Welcome to the club. This is baby number four for us. My children are 16,10 and 5.

dolphinlvr0920 · July 2013

This is my 3rd pregnancy, due in January. My first will be 14 in September, my second will turn 5 this month. So, I've done a great job of spreading things out!! My body handled my 2nd pregnancy very well although the birth was almost identical to my 1st nearly nine years earlier! So far, things are going well. I'm mainly just tired with extremely sore boobs (more so than ever before) and yes, irritability with your husband is a symptom! I'm ready to chew his head off!!

lilmisstubborn · July 2013

My oldest is 14 and my youngest 11.. They are super excited to have a new baby coming. They are more help than DH right now, lol. I had many of your symptoms during my first trimester, but it all good for now. (20 weeks). Welcome and congrats!

babyL2 · July 2013

My son is 6, will be almost 7 when his sister arrives. I'm 38 and so far this has been a really great pregnancy. I have been a bit more tired than I remember being the first time around, but that's about it. Best of luck to you and congratulations!

Oldfatmom · July 2013

Ok...Im feeling a little ridiculous..... My oldest is 22 and pregnant herself (18 weeks), then 19 and 17....now 5 weeks 5 days pregnant after a loss of twins in September at 7 weeks. Surprise!

Lilly092 · July 2013

That's gonna be great! You'll have so much help. And I had an aunt only 2 years older than me. She was like a sister. It'll awesome. Best wishes for you!

mommyjudy7 · July 2013

Hello fello "AMA." We have a lot in common because I have an 8 year old son and this is my second pregnancy. I'm due in October so I'm halfway done with this journey! I wish you so much luck because, for me, this pregnancy is a lot more tiring and stressful than my first!

thwomp · July 2013

I'm so glad to be reading this!

I just took a positive test and made my first appointment. Hopefully, I will be having a baby the first week of April. My son will turn 7 in the middle of April. (I'll be 37 by the time I have this baby.)

Good luck everyone!

futuremrswinfree · July 2013

13 years! I must be crazy!

*Naea* · August 2013

This thread makes me feel better about my own spread

My older son will be 14 a month before this LO is due in March, and my younger turns 7 next month. I'll be 39 in September.

With all the new non-invasive screening methods out there, I am thinking that this is a good time to be AMA now.

blush64 · August 2013

My oldest is 17.5 and my middle is 14.5, ow I have baby A. So, 14.5 years from the last pregnancy and 17.5 since my first. My body handled things so easily the first two times. This time was much harder on my body. The end of pregnancy was incredibly difficult and the time just after was harder. The symptoms were worse and I was much more tired.

All that being said it was worth it and I am planning one last baby before we are done. I found it easier to have kids closer together than having a huge age gap but there's nothing I can do about that and it's amazing to see my teenagers interact with their baby sister.

A 14.5 and 17.5 year age gap is a lot but it still works. I had to respond even though I am no longer pregnant.

amjdmom · August 2013

I am 40 years old and 5 weeks pg with #5. This pregnancy was a total shock. My other children are 22, 19, 6, 5 so you are not alone. I am already more achy, cranky and tired than I was last time around. Constant irritation with the husband is definitely one of my symptoms as this was all his idea! I had a tubal scheduled and he wanted another. Tricky ba$tard! Lol

LiliumAuratum · August 2013

So glad to be reading this...It is nice to know I am in good company! My daughter is 7, and I am nine weeks pregnant. I find that fatigue is so much worse at 37 than it was with my first pregnancy at 29, but my daughter is being very understanding and is completely mothering me! She is going to make a fantastic big sister!

mommyjudy7 · August 2013

Hello there. Well I'm 30 weeks pregnant with baby #2...I have an 8 year old son! This pregnancy is definitely a lot more different than my first in the sense that I am ALWAYS tired and can't do half of the things that I did when I was pregnant with DS. Maybe it will be better for you, good luck!

Clbrhb · August 2013

Hello! I'm 36 and 6 weeks along with #3. My other two are 14 and 12....it's been awhile but it didn't take long to be reminded of all the nausea, fatigue and boobie expansion. I have learned how to eat better in the last 12 years so hopefully this will be a healthier pregnancy.

kdropcho · August 2013

Hey all, I'm also in my later 30's (37), and I have 2 older sons. Liam just turned 9 and Finn is 6. I am currently 36+ weeks pregnant (with a girl this time!) and like PP have said, I have much less patience with my sons, my husband (who's undergone multiple knee surgeries over the past 6 months), and my old old body!

For those of you still early on... 2nd tri will feel the best. Then it just gets pretty tough to look after the other kids and try to stay off your feet as much as possible.

Best of luck to everyone!

tara6776 · August 2013

My first post here!

BFP yesterday!

My first two children are 18 months apart. Ava is 6 and Carl is 4.5

So far my symptoms are fatigue and dizziness. And feeling HANGRY all the time. Hoping to not gain 70#s this time!

ScorpioMum · August 2013

My kids are 13, 11, 8, & 5. This has been the easiest pregnancy so far. Since the kids are all older I can rest more easily. My older two can cook dinner for the family. I'm starting to get tired and irritable by the end of the day. I think not having toddlers to deal with is making this one go easier.

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DezignedByFaith · August 2013

My oldest is 16...middle child is 10 and my youngest is 5 today. My baby is due in November so I guess you can say I have some space between them. Never easy but worth it

Mandyw75 · August 2013

I'm 38 and my son is 10. I'm due in April and my ds was born in April. I really wish had written down how I felt last time. I'm very tired and feel nauseous. I think I didn't notice it as much last time. I'm also very easily annoyed. I feel like I'm fake smiling most of the day.

happyturtle03 · August 2013

My kids are 10yrs and 7yrs and I'm not quite 14 weeks pregnant with 3rd child. I think the biggest changes I've noticed are nobody sells maternity clothes in stores anymore (frustrated grumbles at only having Motherhood to shop in when I need a whole new wardrobe!) and my insurance has this whole new well-pregnancy program that they didn't have 7 yrs ago, so I'm still trying to figure it all out... my body though, seems to know exactly what to do and so far the pregnancy has been really easy compared to the one with my son 7 yrs ago where I had all sorts of issues with extreme morning sickness all day and all night and then pregnancy induced hypertension. This time around, because of a miscarriage just previous to this pregnancy (I got pregnant after only one normal period, which surprised all of us!), my age (40), and the hypertension that stuck around after my son was born, I'm already on medication to control it and seeing a Perinatologist in addition to my regular OB, which has been really reassuring after I got over the initial nervousness that my OB thought there was reason to see a high risk specialist. I'm feeling great though, and Baby seems to be thriving and growing like mad. I just started feeling some tiny little kicks this week, and all my sonos have been perfect acording to my Drs.

DTNZ4Ever · August 2013

DS is 4 he will just turn 5 or about to turn 5 when #2 arrives. So I have 5 years between pregnancies. I will be 36 when the baby is born. #2 took us way longer then we thought we were hoping for more like 4 years difference but that didn't work.

NoelO2007 · August 2013

Hi!

I'm 37 and due with baby #2 in November. Our DS will be 3 in two weeks so a 3 year age difference for us.

MrsC1010 · August 2013

I know this thread is kinda old.. But I had 11 years between DS#1 and DS#2! (Second marriage). I'm 35 and just got my BFP for #3 today!

DS#1 is 14 and DS#2 is 2! My first two pregnancies were completely different.. Believe it or not, but the second was way easier! i'm curious to see how different this one will be!

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