Seriously?

acethebase · July 2013

So my mom called me freaking out that my sister is pregnant again. Which I wouldn't have a problem with but there is just certain people who shouldn't be allowed to have kids. I ended up calling child services on her after she just gave birth to her first son because I go over there and she's breastfeeding the baby while bragging that she's been taking codine all day without eating anything,WTF! Then as I go to leave they light up and start smoking a blunt right in front of him. I was so enraged........ So now she's pregnant again and also still smoking pot and drinking like she did with her first, what the fluck is she thinking, oh yeah and she also lives off the system, yup she's a scumbag............. End rant

Ninabean1030 · July 2013

Sounds just like my ex SIL. She's like 22 with 4 kids that all have different dads and she only has custody of one which I don't know how that's possible since she's a drug user and all her babies have tested positive at birth. It made me really mad for a long time because it took three years for us to get pregnant and she was popping them out left and right.

cait8387 · July 2013

Good for you calling child services on her ... How can anyone do things like this especially having children never mind being pregnant?! Those poor babies...blows my mind

Life is Exciting · July 2013

Wow! What did child services do when you called them?

acethebase · July 2013

They went and paid her a visit but my mom tipped her off, so of course they didn't find anything..... I was so pissed at my mother, I don't care if that's your daughter, she clearly should have that baby taken away. So she still has David who is now 2 and a half and let's just say he clearly has issues probably from all the drug and alcohol abuse, and now she's going to bring another poor child into this world! I just can't believe it

Gwyneddlesliegrace · July 2013

asajeanmiller:
They went and paid her a visit but my mom tipped her off, so of course they didn't find anything..... I was so pissed at my mother, I don't care if that's your daughter, she clearly should have that baby taken away

Has she continued to do such things? I would keep calling...

fantasticmrsfox · July 2013

Goodness that makes me so sad. I can't imagine how you must feel having to watch that. TPs for you and for her children. I hope something can be done to help her understand as well as your mother and to get those children in a safe situation!

acethebase · July 2013

Yeah she still does that crap, I don't talk to her but my mom goes to visit and she told my mom the only way she can handle her life is to smoke pot everyday....... I dont know, do you have to first hand see those things or can you call off of suspicion, I really just don't know how they couldn't find anything!

Brookej610 · July 2013

I would think that DSS has to investigate every call. And anyone that says they have to have pot to deal with life has clearly got their priorities flucked up!

MissJackieMeri · July 2013

Breaks my heart for those poor children. At least you did the right thing by calling CPS on her. She sounds horrid. If the 2 and 1/2 year old is already having signs of problems just makes it even worse. Maybe next time not telling your mom you are calling CPS on her so they can catch her on the act if she is still doing it. I will definitely pray for those children.

jarebearsmom · July 2013

asajeanmiller:
Yeah she still does that crap, I don't talk to her but my mom goes to visit and she told my mom the only way she can handle her life is to smoke pot everyday....... I dont know, do you have to first hand see those things or can you call off of suspicion, I really just don't know how they couldn't find anything!

It is not your job to KNOW. If you suspect anything then you need to call and NOT let your mother know. My sister also lives off the system, lost her son at 3 months because her husband beat her son, they got him back and have a daughter now and they are pregnant with their third. And they don't work. It's messed up

MiaGirl0815 · July 2013

Keep calling and don't let your mom know. Honestly I would question your mom's judgment if she tipped her off. I understand that it is her daughter, but those are her grand kids and they are helpless in this situation. She is enabling her and certainly not helping the situation. I feel so horrible for those kids.

cole89 · July 2013

MiaGirl0815:
Keep calling and don't let your mom know. nbsp;Honestly I would question your mom's judgment if she tipped her off. nbsp;I understand that it is her daughter, but those are her grand kids and they are helpless in this situation. nbsp;She is enabling her and certainly not helping the situation. nbsp;I feel so horrible for those kids.

Agreed.

bionicb · July 2013

I agree with pps, keep calling. Call until those children get help. Your mother clearly doesn't care that your sister endangers their lives so don't tell her. don't tell cps anything about your mother unless they need to know that she is also endangering those children by not getting your sister help and helping her hide her horrible lifestyle.

Keep calling.

CousinVicki · July 2013

call again and keep calling. wtf. and why are you tellikng your mom you called? she is obviously just as f'd up as your sister if she is enabling that poor child to continue to live like that. children can't speak up for themselves, you have to do it.

acethebase · July 2013

Well I wasn't purposely trying to tell my mom, I was so upset when I left I was telling her everything that happened and asked for her opinion because I told my mother she needed to have that baby taken away. My mom agreed and wasn't even on speaking terms with my sister so I was floored when I found out that she tipped her off. Don't worry, lesson learned with that..... I will call again!

palm513 · July 2013

Where I am from if your child tests positive for any drugs at birth they start an investigation where they randomly come to your house and do random drug tests on you and the child, along with basic home searches, and as soon as you fail 2 they take the baby.

If you don't go through a program you can't get them back.

germanpickle · July 2013

This is me having a dance party in YOUR HONOR!

From a child that survived abuse:

GOOD JOB ON CALLING CPS!!!!! Hold your head up high, your phone close, and keep dialing. WAY TO GO LADY!!!!

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