We should start thinking about using an egg donor. That's it in a nutshell. The second RE we met with yesterday said our best shot at a healthy pregnancy and live birth would be with a donor. He said my FSH levels are consistent with that of a 45yrold I'm only 37 and that he'd be surprised if I didn't start menopause early.
I'm devastated. We are both willing to consider a donor but I just don't know if we can afford it.
Anyone else on this board have experience using an egg donor??
DD conceived naturally in 2009. TTC #2 since August 2010. Praying for guidance as we decide what's next.
When the world says, "Give up,"
Hope whispers, "Try it one more time."
~Author Unknown
Re: Update on 2nd opinion
First pregnancy - DS 01-Apr-09;
3rd cycle Clomid/IUI after 2 years TTC
TTC #2 since ~June 2010
IUI #1 & 2 - Clomid/IUI - BFN
IUI #3 &4 - Gonal-F/Ovidrel and IUI -- BFN
IUI #5 - Gonal-F/Ovidrel and IUI -- BFP!!
EDD: March 22, 2013
It's triplets!!
First pregnancy - DS 01-Apr-09;
3rd cycle Clomid/IUI after 2 years TTC
TTC #2 since ~June 2010
IUI #1 & 2 - Clomid/IUI - BFN
IUI #3 &4 - Gonal-F/Ovidrel and IUI -- BFN
IUI #5 - Gonal-F/Ovidrel and IUI -- BFP!!
EDD: March 22, 2013
It's triplets!!
Thank you! I didn't realize there was a third party board on the bump so I will definitely look there for support.
When the world says, "Give up,"
Hope whispers, "Try it one more time."
~Author Unknown
Me: 42. DH: 46.
1st Pregnancy: MC, 11/19/00.
2nd Pregnancy: DS born 04/10/06.
3rd Pregnancy: CP, 03/11.
4th Pregnancy: MMC, D&C 11/30/11, Genetic testing revealed Trisomy 4.
5th Pregnancy: Ectopic, 2 doses of Methotrexate unsuccessful, surgery 4/10/12, right tube removed.
Tried Letrozole January 2013-July 2013 (including 2 IUIs), all BFN. After 2 1/2 years of trying for child #2, decided to "give up" after July cycle, based on AMA.
August 16, 2013: BFP our first month of "not trying!" Still in shock. Beta #1 (14dpo): 183. Beta #2 (17dpo): 611. Ultrasound 8/30/13: baby measured 6 weeks, 1 day, heart rate of 118 bpm!
Ultrasound 9/13/13: 8 weeks, heart rate of 176!
Baby is due 4/26/14
TTC #1 4/2009 - DD 2/5/10
TTC #2 since October 2011
2IF issues