Secondary IF

Update on 2nd opinion

We should start thinking about using an egg donor. That's it in a nutshell. The second RE we met with yesterday said our best shot at a healthy pregnancy and live birth would be with a donor. He said my FSH levels are consistent with that of a 45yrold I'm only 37 and that he'd be surprised if I didn't start menopause early.

I'm devastated. We are both willing to consider a donor but I just don't know if we can afford it.

Anyone else on this board have experience using an egg donor??

DD conceived naturally in 2009.  TTC #2 since August 2010.  Praying for guidance as we decide what's next.

When the world says, "Give up,"

Hope whispers, "Try it one more time."

 ~Author Unknown

Re: Update on 2nd opinion

  • I'm so sorry you didn't get better news at your appointment. I don't have any experience with IVF or egg donors. Maybe someone on the third party reproduction board may be of some help? Sorry you're going through this.
    Me: 33 DH: 36 Unexplained IF
    First pregnancy - DS 01-Apr-09;
    3rd cycle Clomid/IUI after 2 years TTC
    TTC #2 since ~June 2010
    IUI #1 & 2 - Clomid/IUI - BFN
    IUI #3 &4 - Gonal-F/Ovidrel and IUI -- BFN
    IUI #5 - Gonal-F/Ovidrel and IUI -- BFP!!
    EDD: March 22, 2013
    It's triplets!!


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  • I'm so sorry you didn't get better news at your appointment. I don't have any experience with IVF or egg donors. Maybe someone on the third party reproduction board may be of some help? Sorry you're going through this.
    Me: 33 DH: 36 Unexplained IF
    First pregnancy - DS 01-Apr-09;
    3rd cycle Clomid/IUI after 2 years TTC
    TTC #2 since ~June 2010
    IUI #1 & 2 - Clomid/IUI - BFN
    IUI #3 &4 - Gonal-F/Ovidrel and IUI -- BFN
    IUI #5 - Gonal-F/Ovidrel and IUI -- BFP!!
    EDD: March 22, 2013
    It's triplets!!


  • imagercnavywife:
    I'm so sorry you didn't get better news at your appointment. I don't have any experience with IVF or egg donors. Maybe someone on the third party reproduction board may be of some help? Sorry you're going through this.

    Thank you!  I didn't realize there was a third party board on the bump so I will definitely look there for support. 

    DD conceived naturally in 2009.  TTC #2 since August 2010.  Praying for guidance as we decide what's next.

    When the world says, "Give up,"

    Hope whispers, "Try it one more time."

     ~Author Unknown

  • No experience with that either, but just wanted to say I'm sorry it wasn't better news.  I hope it works out one way or the other for you!

    Me: 42. DH: 46.

    1st Pregnancy: MC, 11/19/00.

    2nd Pregnancy: DS born 04/10/06.

    3rd Pregnancy: CP, 03/11.

    4th Pregnancy: MMC, D&C 11/30/11, Genetic testing revealed Trisomy 4.

    5th Pregnancy: Ectopic, 2 doses of Methotrexate unsuccessful, surgery 4/10/12, right tube removed.

    Tried Letrozole January 2013-July 2013 (including 2 IUIs), all BFN.  After 2 1/2 years of trying for child #2, decided to "give up" after July cycle, based on AMA.

    August 16, 2013:  BFP our first month of "not trying!"  Still in shock.  Beta #1 (14dpo): 183.  Beta #2 (17dpo):  611.  Ultrasound 8/30/13: baby measured 6 weeks, 1 day, heart rate of 118 bpm! 
    Ultrasound 9/13/13:  8 weeks, heart rate of 176!
    Baby is due 4/26/14

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  • I'm sorry about your news, but just wanted to say I'm praying for you. I know how devastating it can be to hear that your body is acting older than your actual age. I hope you find the information you are looking for. Good luck!
    DH & I: 29
    TTC #1 4/2009 -  DD 2/5/10
    TTC #2 since October 2011
    2IF issues
    7/2013 - IUI #1: 50 units Follistim +  Ovidrel  = BFN
    8/2013 - IUI #2: 50 units Follistim +  Ovidrel  = BFP! Beta #1 (12 dpiui) 8/21: 45  Beta #2 (16 dpiui) 8/26: 301 Beta #3 (21 dpiui) 8/30: 1,929. 1st Ultrasound 9/4 - One perfect sac. 2nd Ultrasound 9/13 - Heartbeat at 124 bpm! Anniversary  

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