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"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." ~ Lao Tzu
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  • HopeforthebestHopeforthebest member

    DH's birthday is this weekend, and I STILL have no ideas of what to do/get for him.

    I'm stressing OUT.

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  • HisChamaoleGirlHisChamaoleGirl member
    I'm starting to feel like a babysitter. DH time off work was revoked so that leaves me with SS all day. DH spends every moment he isn't at work with SS so it's not like I hold a grudge towards SS or DH. It's not their fault, but I am exhausted. I am looking forward to my mom and her husband visiting next week and I partially feel bad for wanting to push SS on them so I can get a break. They are coming here specifically to see him so I shouldn't feel badly, but I do since he's only here for a few weeks.

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  • Lavender PLavender P member
    I think BM gets off on telling DH what to do. She told him that he better have SS at her house on Sunday by 6 pm or else. We are never late dropping off or picking up SS, and in the rare instance we have been, we call her. She has no plans on Sunday, and SS doesn't have school the next day so I'm not sure why the "or else" threat was necessary. I want to offer to drop off SS on Sunday, and take him there 10 minutes late on purpose. She makes all kinds of threats to DH but would never say anything to me. I want her to know that she can demand things all she wants but that doesn't mean we have to listen. 
    "Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." ~ Lao Tzu
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  • Lavender PLavender P member

    image*HiS ChAmAoLe GiRL*:
    I'm starting to feel like a babysitter. DH time off work was revoked so that leaves me with SS all day. DH spends every moment he isn't at work with SS so it's not like I hold a grudge towards SS or DH. It's not their fault, but I am exhausted. I am looking forward to my mom and her husband visiting next week and I partially feel bad for wanting to push SS on them so I can get a break. They are coming here specifically to see him so I shouldn't feel badly, but I do since he's only here for a few weeks.

    I know it is hard because you want ro make the most of the limited time you have with him, but don't feel bad. Everyone needs and deserves a break, especially since you are pregnant.  

    "Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." ~ Lao Tzu
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  • Bebelove0947Bebelove0947 member
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    I had originally planned on keeping DS with me today because I don't have class and I wanted the extra time with him. But he went to bed 3 hours late and woke up cranky and threw a tantrum within the first minute of the day. I dropped him at daycare the minute it opened and peaced out quicker than you could snap.nbsp;I am currently enjoying a quiet cup of coffee and regret nothing.nbsp; Surprise

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  • fellesferiefellesferie member

    It's been raining on and off for days, so we've had the dog inside more than usual. In what can only be described as epic timing, she's just gone into heat. To top it off, our house is on the market so we're showing once every couple days.

    Plus DD is sick. She spent all of yesterday trying to climb back up into the womb.

    I am irrationally irritated.  

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  • HopeforthebestHopeforthebest member

    I have another one.

    I hate WHERE I work. The person I work for, not WHAT I do though.

    I have no freakin way of quitting without having another job lined up and the thought of going through the WAIT for seniority and vacation time when starting a new job has me feeling STUCK!

    I'm miserable at work EVERY freakin day. I have GOT to do something. UGH!

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  • HisChamaoleGirlHisChamaoleGirl member
    imageLavender P:

    image*HiS ChAmAoLe GiRL*:
    I'm starting to feel like a babysitter. DH time off work was revoked so that leaves me with SS all day. DH spends every moment he isn't at work with SS so it's not like I hold a grudge towards SS or DH. It's not their fault, but I am exhausted. I am looking forward to my mom and her husband visiting next week and I partially feel bad for wanting to push SS on them so I can get a break. They are coming here specifically to see him so I shouldn't feel badly, but I do since he's only here for a few weeks.

    I know it is hard because you want ro make the most of the limited time you have with him, but don't feel bad. Everyone needs and deserves a break, especially since you are pregnant.  

    Thank you. I really try to cut myself some slack bc of the pregnancy factor, but I still want to make the best of our time. Yesterday we went to an amusement park and I think thats part of the reason I am so wore out today. The boys had a blast and thankfully there was a water park I could play in while they got their roller coaster fix. We were looking forward to another family day but sadly DH got called in. :-( Hopefully he gets released after a few hours and we can start our activities.

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  • Sunday924Sunday924 member
    I want BM to take SS soooo badly. He is on my last nerve and I seriously can't stand to be in the same room as he is. I want to txt her something nasty but I won't. 
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  • +just+j++just+j+ member

    DD last night asked me in the car, leaving from fireworks, "Will the dinosaurs eat us?"

    Thank you A$$hole XH, AGAIN for watching Jurassic Park with her. 

    She kept looking up at the trees and asking me.  So at 10:40 I called XH to hold him a little accountable and to tell him to tell her that there are no dinosaurs and they will not eat her.

    He was drunk. So I end the conversation, only to get a call back and voicemail as to why I won't let him talk to his daughter.

    You're DRUNK a$$hole!

    Have another whiskey XH. I'll handle it.

    I ended up telling her it was all make believe and that I would beat up the dinosaurs (demonstrated how I would do it too and how the dinosaurs would die with their tongues out) before they ever got to my little girl.  That seemed to make her happy.

    "he offered her the world. she said she had her own" - poet Monique Duval
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  • PamelacakePamelacake member
    I don't mean to sound ignorant here but .. what's FFFC? =/ I have been on here for a shorty while now and didn't find it in the glossary. Lol @ me
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  • Lavender PLavender P member

    imagePamelacake:
    I don't mean to sound ignorant here but .. what's FFFC? =/ I have been on here for a shorty while now and didn't find it in the glossary. Lol @ me

    It stands for Friday Flame Free Confessions, meaning you can divulge how you are really feeling and not get flamed for it (in theory....it doesn't always work!). 

    "Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." ~ Lao Tzu
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  • PamelacakePamelacake member
    imageLavender P:

    imagePamelacake:
    I don't mean to sound ignorant here but .. what's FFFC? =/ I have been on here for a shorty while now and didn't find it in the glossary. Lol @ me

    It stands for Friday Flame Free Confessions, meaning you can divulge how you are really feeling and not get flamed for it (in theory....it doesn't always work!). 

    LOL OK Thank You.

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