I'm completely new The Bump, as I don't even have baby on the brain, but I figured maybe people on this board can help me out. We have a number of friends who are expecting and doing gender reveal parties. We went to one on Mother's Day (our first one ever) that was a lot of fun, but we quickly realized that some people had brought gifts, and we didn't, which made us feel a little dumb. We're going to one in a few weeks and want to know 1) are gifts expected at these things?, 2) if so, what do you get? Our go-to present for any other party is a nice bottle of wine, which is not really going to go over well at a pregnancy related event so that's out. It feels very weird to buy a gender neutral present for a "gender partisan" party and I'm also going to baby showers for these friends, so it's not like this party will replace a shower, so IDK. Any ideas would be helpful! Thanks!