I tried to be kind and supportive and all i wanted was a drama free board where i felt safe to say what i wanted and i all i did was ask for you bunch what i thought where adults to act like adults we all have experienced loss. Instead of this board being sportive all it is is a bunch of little brats/bullies that never wanted to grow up or leave high school. You just are all bitter said infertile women who cant have babies who want to take their pain out on other women who dont fit in your perfect lil group.
I have tried to be nice and bite my tongue. I find it said you are here just to chat about your pathetic lives and find good people to pick on and kick them down and keep kicking them and turn their intro post into some sick form of entertainment of bashing them like a bunch of little kids. In all reality you all are worse then kindergartners. I decided after my last post that you all are just sad mean lil gurls that have yet to grow up.
I could say mean nasty things right back at you guys but i am a christian and refuse to let you guys drag me down to your pathetic levels. SO please go ahead and enjoy bashing this post i know you will have wonderful things to say. I will not be back i know drama free board and want nothing to do with this board i am not wasting one more day in this exclusive board that only want drama to take their minds of their painful lives. You need therapy. I am not talking about every one on this board but you all know who im talking to i hope you at least that smart. I am a adult with a loss and need a group of grown ups to grieve with not school girls. I am so sorry you all are so bitter that you need to be hurtful to others to have a laugh. So sad.......
Re: So i cant handle your pathetic drama loving board.
You want to see support see my thread from this morning. These ladies are incredible!!!!
Hi Car! I love you!!!!
If we are so pathetic and miserable why did you want to. join us? We are all not infertile and just goes to show how little you know about the board. Let's get this GBCB on their road and move on shall we. Enjoy babygaga.
Im not going to lie and say ill miss you. Have a nice life and don't let the door hit you on the azz on your way out.
THE DARK SIDE IT IS
and GBCB
BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia
BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
~All AL always welcome~
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Then WTH did you do here? Don't let the door hit you on the way out!
TTC started Oct '10
Me: AMA w/RSD, atypical PCOS w/IR, LPD and High Prolactin. Controlled HP post-loss.
DH: Low-T and borderline morph
18 cycles, 3 medicated w/RE to get to a BFP!
EDD 9/7/12, Saw HB @7w3d,missed m/c 1/30 @8w3d, d&c 2/8
11 AL cycles, 9 medicated/IUI cycles. All BFFN!
Moving forward with IVF
BFP#2 our little cycle break surprise on AL cycle 12! EDD 10/27/13
Beta #1: 41 Beta #2: 398; perfect u/s 3/11 hb @133bpm
u/s 3/25 one perfect hb @183 bpm, adjusted EDD 10/23/13
MaterniT21 and carrier screens normal. It's a girl!!!
Severe Pre-E, HFpEF, PE, AMA & IF= OAD
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You kind of contradicted yourself there, sweetie. Don't say nasty things about us and then say you won't because you're a Christian. Hi! I'm a Christian too.....I'll pray for you. )
Edit: I changed my mind. I probably won't pray for you. But, I will hope that you find a place to fit in because this clearly isn't it.
~Amanda
All are welcome in my posts
I understand that you are less than a week from your EDD and your loss is still very fresh.
This board is amazingly supportive. Is there rules? Yes, it helps keep this board a better place. If you were on here for 3 months, 6 months, a year or more, you would see why the board functions better when certain posts are put in one designated spot.
This is also our safe spot. We fight for that. It is never okay for someone to come in and phish for us to tell them they are pregnant, post their BFPs, or attack us and call us "bitter" or any other insult they want to throw our way.
All we ever asked you to do was use sentences, use full words, and double check what you wrote before you posted. This was not to be mean. Your initial posts were unreadable and people will not respond to those posts. Lurking would have shown you that we do not use text speak. You did not do that and were called on it.
I would also like to point out that calling us "bitter said infertile women who cant have babies" (copying your mistakes in that quote) was cruel, mean, and uncalled for. It also was not Christian - you did exactly what you said you would not do - you resulted to name calling. Worse, you walked into a pregnancy loss support group and told 100% of the grieving women in that room that they could not have babies.
Crystal - I'm going to stop there, because I do recognize that you are close to your EDD, but what you did was uncalled for. If you do not like the community do not expect that you can scold members and change the board. Go somewhere else where you fit in.
This board is a beautiful place full of beautiful people.
Shame on you. Shame.on.you.
The day the Bump died - Jasper is wise
Way to get it done Mandiroo!!!! Love this!!
This was such a long time coming. Im not surprised by this outburst whatsoever.
Move along. Im busy being infertile and mean here.
THE DARK SIDE IT IS
and GBCB
BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia
BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
~All AL always welcome~
Haha, thanks Amy. ) I had to go back and edit. I don't think I was completely truthful. (Been thinking of you a lot today, hon!)
~Amanda
All are welcome in my posts
This! I cannot believe you sit there and call us names and then profess to be the bigger person here. Please leave and stop hurting my friends. This post shows your true colors. I had no problem with you until you went off name calling. Just go. I am mobile or I would send you a brilliant gtfo gif.
married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13
BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14
All AL always welcome in my threads!
married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13
BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14
All AL always welcome in my threads!
Well said
TTC since March 2012
BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13
BFP #3 8/11/14 EDD 4/22/14
Wow! I may still be a newbie around here but even I know that this is completely uncalled for and cruel, there is a reason this board runs the way it does. This community is wonderful and these ladies are very supportive.
I...I can't...what the...?
Natural miscarriage @ 8 weeks - 3/8/2005
Big Brother "Skippy" born - 2/28/2007
Missed miscarriage - (EDD 3/5/2013) - D&E @ 11 weeks - 8/8/2012
"Hen" (EDD 6/7/2013) - born sleeping @ 19 weeks - 1/15/2013
"G-Unit" born - 4/14/2014 and he's 100% perfection!!
Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.
June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!
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Bugg, you are a class act!
TTC since October 2012
BFP#1 1/11/13, EDD 9/19/13, M/C at 9wk6dy
BFP#2 11/12/13, DS born 7/28/14!
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Nice job on that...
TTC since October 2012
BFP#1 1/11/13, EDD 9/19/13, M/C at 9wk6dy
BFP#2 11/12/13, DS born 7/28/14!
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Well, first of all, I think Bugg said things very well.
I'm sorry that you feel the way you do about this board - I think the reason you DO feel that way is b/c you never bothered to really join and become a part of the community. If you had, then you would understand why your post now is completely rude and uncalled for. You jumped to the defense of someone who was intentionally hurtful and argumentative towards the rest of the board, and now you are wondering why that garnered such a negative reaction?
It's completely the opposite of Christian to call people "bitter, sad, infertile" and to basically stoop to the lowest of lows when name-calling (which you said you wouldn't do, but you did). You should be ashamed of yourself for saying things like that when you know that you are also a part of this group of women who lose their babies - you know the hurt, and you are capitalizing on it to cut people to the bone instead of lifting them up - not something that a Christian would do.
If you didn't agree with things on the board and wanted to leave, then no one could blame you. However, starting a post like this - and acting exactly like what you are telling everyone else they are - is completely uncalled for.
BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d
BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11
BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d
BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13
BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14
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Bug, I love you! You said this perfectly....I understand the pain and anguish you are going through....we have ALL been there, and most of us, no matter the stage of the process we are in, we are still there on a daily basis. It is a fighting battle to wake up and function sometimes, let alone be happy, nice "puppy dogs and rainbows" people.
This board is a safe place. It was my safe haven for 5 months and these women are very important to me. I love and care for them deeply. to come in and say the things you said was totally uncalled for. I really hope you are able to find the support you need, but unfortunately for you...you won't find it here.
BFP: 2/4/13 EDD: 10/11/13
Patiently waiting for Buggirl to join me!!
Beta #1 11dpo:89 Progesterone:38.9 Beta #2 18dpo:1940
HB seen at 6w HB 8w 5d 176bpm! Its a BOY!
grow rainbow grow!!!!
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Really? You pulled the bitter infertile card? Try something new next time. This board is not full of puppies and rainbows. We keep it real around here and obviously you have a problem. You already resorted to calling us names, so I think maybe tomorrow, you need to ask your God for forgiveness. Learn how to play nice with others before you try to join society. Also, learn how to type, spell and maybe you won't look like a 14 year old girl.
And there are people who are struggling very much right now that we have supported. You cannot come here and point fingers whenever you deem necessary, it isn't fair. So thank you for your GBCB.
I couldn't have said it better. If you are so Christian and above all, then who the heck wrote the rest of this post? It is the meanest and most uncalled for thing I've seen in a long time. Very Christian, indeed.
This women are incredible. Despite going through so much, they take time out of their day to give advice, love and support to each other. Just because you didn't understand that or participate doesn't make it catty.
Also, as far as calling everyone bitter infertiles, good luck trying to conceive yourself.
BFP on Mar. 4, 2013, DX with MMC (blighted ovum) at 8 weeks, D&C
TTC again as of May 2013
BFP on June 24, 2013, EED March 12, 2014
Diagnosed with endometriosis, PCOS, heterozygous MTHFR and positive for ANA
GROW BABY, GROW!
I may be one of the newbies around here but I 100% agree with above! All this craziness proves is that this IS a place of fabulous supportive women. Real women, emotional women, and honest women (OP's blatant back and forth contradicting "Christian" statements excluded from said group). I know VERY little about these ladies whom you speak of (English Major in the house), but have lurked and you are SO far off base. Thanks for the infertile comment...that makes me want to spew puppies and rainbows back at you!
I hate it when people take the Lord's name in vain...
Something doesn't match up here.
PS... I haven't read the responses yet... I can't WAIT!
TTCAL Siggy Challenge: "He's my favorite. His birthday is the same as mine almost"
Missing my little one lost at 9 weeks on 2.24.13. brokenhearted but not broken...
d&c 5/21/13... Still Healing, Still Standing...
MMC discovered 10/2/2013, TWINS... d&c 10/7/2013. I still miss you, little ones.
Surgery December 2013 to remove a 10+cm fibroid... Open myomectomy. Benched for 3-9 months...
Will TTC summer Summer 2014 we hope!
Dear God, Since I couldn't hold my little one in my lap and tell him about you, could you hold him in your lap and tell him about me?
PgAL and PAL always welcome...BFP#4 3/17/14 - rainbow Baby BOY arrived 11/10/14 !!
DX: Uterine Septum - Resection 9/5/13 || MTHFR Hetero A1298C || My Chart
Married August 2012. Me: 41 DH: 42
Daughter from previous marriage: 20
BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014
TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014
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I know I'm late to the party because I just saw this now but I had to say it;
OP you've GOT to be kidding me! Clearly you never gave these ladies a chance to support you because if you had you'd know. I've never met a more supportive group of women in my life, online or in real life. Many have even become great friends that I've spent time with in person and got to know their spouses/families. As you can see since several woman have come back to defend the board from you, this is a tight knit community of women who continue to support even those who have gone on to have success in their TTC journey and vice versa. I can't count how many times I've watched these ladies pool money and cards for those going through a particularly hard time, or posted page after page after page of kind messages for those dealing with another loss or hardship. If you couldn't find that here that's your loss for not taking the time to get to know anyone and demanding support from complete strangers without giving it. You get what you put in to this community, the board will not be at a loss without you.
I would also like to point out that this community of women is so supportive of each other, and so wonderful to each other that some of our graduates came back to let you know how childish you are being. I don't think that comes from a group of bitter women.
Sit down woman.
Well you are right, with an attitude like that this is certainly not the right board for you. I hope you enjoy babycenter.
BFP #2: 8/31/12 EDD: 5/18/13 Chemical pregnancy: 9/4/12
BFP #3: 5/17/13 EDD: 1/24/14 Loss at 5 weeks: 5/29/13
Lots of testing, all clear with the exception of compound heterozygous for the MTHFR mutation.
Cycle 1: Femara, trigger shot, Bravelle added due to slow response = BFN
Cycle 2: Cancelled due to two cysts =(
Cycle 3: Femara, Bravelle, trigger shot and IUI = BFP then loss #3
Cycle 4: Femara, Follistim, trigger shot and IUI = BFP! EDD: 6/7/14
PGAL/PAL welcome
OP damn you!! What a shitty thing to say about these beautiful and wonderful ladies. Everyone has basically covered what I have to say so ill just make this short and sweet.
Fck You!!!!!!!
[[[Hugs]]] to everyone else. I'm so sorry trash like this thinks they have the right to hurt all of you.
BFP #1 5.26.08 DD born 1.4.09
BFP #2 3.11.12 m/c 3.26.12
BFP #3 10.7.12 m/c 10.27.12
BFP #4 2.24.13 ectopic MTX 3.13.13 Right tube removed 3.29.13
BFP #5 5.27.13 DS born 1.22.14
BFP #6 4.14.16
I love you Jordy lol.
chia. Thank you to all the PgAL lovelies who came back to vouch for us all on this thread. Huge ((hugs)) miss you all! Hope we can join you soon.
Ctilly, we will not miss you. At all.
married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13
BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14
All AL always welcome in my threads!
We love you too! Thanks for coming to our defense PGAL ladies.
BFP#1 9/5/12, MMC, MC confirmed 10/9/12,
D&C 12/12/12 BFP#2 7/30/13, EDD 4/12/14, DS born 4/14/14
I love when people pull the Christian card after spewing hate. I
OP, as a Christian, I will say I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope you find the comfort and support you need elsewhere. Operative word, elsewhere.
To the ladies of TTCAL, I heart you all.
BFP #1 : 3/20/13 | EDD: 12/1/13 | MC: 4/15/13
BFP #2: 1/9/14 | EDD: 9/21/14
Welcomed our rainbow bear on 8/31/14
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OP....
BFP#1 9/9/12 -- EDD 5/14/13 -- MMC 10/10/12 Miso 10/19/12
BFP #2 9/17/13 -- EDD 5/25/14-- CP confirmed 9/21/13
BFP #3 2/1/14 -- EDD 10/5/14 -- NMC 2/10/14
Dx: low progesterone & mild hypothyroidism
My Chart
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You clearly don't get the purpose of this board and how fiercely protective we are of each other, both on TTCAL and PgAL... GTFO permanently if you can't play nice and be supportive like the rest of these wonderful women. Love you ladies!!! :::hugs:::
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"As long as I live you will live. As long as I live you will be loved."
BFP#1 3/31/12 EDD 12/1/12,No HB 6/6/12 (14 weeks 4 days), D&C 6/11/12 (15 weeks 2 days)*Arabella Ann*
BFP#2 5/21/14 EDD 1/27/15 *GROW BABY GROW*
This. S-A-D. I'm not sure how it's possible to be infertile when I've been pregnant 4 times and have one child, but you go on with your bad self.
Btw, did I miss something? Where did this come from?
BFP #1 ended in MMC. Discovered Oct 2005 @10w5d, baby stopped growing around 6w. D&C.
BFP#2 Nov 2005. Baby's heart stopped @ 8w3d. D&C Jan 2006. Trisomy 18
BFP#3 Nov 2006. My "miracle baby" DD born 7/25/07
BFP #4 11/6/12. EDD 7/16/13~my birthday! No sac found @ 5w1d, betas not increasing. Natural m/c started 11/20/12.
BFP#5 11/9/13. EDD 7/21/14 Our beautiful rainbow born on his due date!!