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Buried my baby today

MRowe82MRowe82
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I buried my sweet Lily today, it was the hardest thing I hope I ever have to do. I can't stand the fact that she's now at the cemetery it's now raining. I know she's with God, but I hope she's not wet or cold. : I also hate the fact that my breasts are full I can't feed her, I was so looking forward to that binding time.
I will say this experience has made my boyfriend I so much closer. It's almost painful to be away from him sometimes. I know that we have to to wait for me to heal, but it's so hard not to share intimacy right now, when we seem to need it most. I'm just so thankful for him. I have a wonderful support system, for which Im grateful. On a bright note, I saw a rainbow tonight, I like to think that was Lily, once again showing us her love beauty.
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  • NoetholaNoethola member
    I am so very sorry for your loss. Its an awful experience to have to bury your baby. I am so thankful that you have a good support group and I pray they continue to be supportive over the coming weeks, months and years.
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  • PerkyErkyPerkyErky member
    I am so very sorry. Burying your baby is a horrible thing. I barely remember the day except for sobbing as my DH held me at the cemetery. Big hugs to you.
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  • shandorfml2shandorfml2 member
    Lots of hugs. Burying your angel is so so hard. I'm sure that rainbow was for you :)

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  • SoonaBaileySoonaBailey
    I know I can't say anything that will really help because I've been there too, and there's nothing worse! It rained the day I buried Lisy and I thought it was appropriate because the weather had no right to be good when I felt so awful! Just keep holding tight to your SO, you need each other more than ever now! ((HUGS)) 
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  • BrittianyMBrittianyM member
    Very sorry you had to do that today. It is the hardest thing to do. Please know she knows you love her and she sill be watching over you. HUGS

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  • soon2bmrsdanielsoon2bmrsdaniel member
    I"m so sorry for your loss. I buried my twin girls, Allison and Lucy, on 6/6/13. My husband has been the only person that makes me feel better since it happened. The afternoon we buried them it was very rainy and when we left to get in the car to go to the cemetery, the sun came out and I like to think that was my girls :)

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