My 14 year old son has been at his grandmothers all week. I had to call him Monday to tell him the baby died. He found out I was pregnant on vacation by accident and didn't handle it well at first. He actually begged me to not have the baby. He told me he prayed to God that I would lose the baby. The next day he apologized and got really excited about having a sibling and talked about it for day's.
I lost the baby before his outburst but didn't know it yet so I know in his mind he is probably struggling. Hes very quiet about his feeling so I'm not sure when I see him if he says anything and not sure what I need to say. He's sent me text all week asking how I was feeling.
Im just nervous seeing him and that I can remain strong if he says anything. I don't want him holding this over his head that he got what he wanted. He was just being a 14 yr old freaking out that his mom was pregnant.