Lost my first pregnancy and DH and I are eager to try again when we are cleared. I am suppose to be in a wedding in the middle of May of next year. I've known this girl for 25 years so it's going to be an important day. DH and I are eager to try again and if all goes well I will either be due or very pregnant during that date. I would say we should hold off until the start of the new year, but I'm scared that it will happen again and that will just push us back even further. I don't mind being in a wedding pregnant, but it might be a challenge to get a dress.
Of course, there are so many IF's but I'm torn with what to do. This girl means a lot to me and I don't want to make her upset either!
Re: What would you do?
With my second son I did the planning and it actually didn't work out like I had "planned". I got pregnant with him at a different time. It was perfect timing when it was all said and done though. JMO
Very much agree and that is why it's so hard to make a decision.
Began trying for a baby January 2012
BFP 4.25.2013 EDD 1.3.2014 MMC 6.3.2013 D&C 6.19.2013
BFP 11.3.2013 CP 11.6.2013
BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014
From someone who has been on this road 3 times... Try.... IF you do you will work something out.... And if she is that good of a friend she will be happy for you.
BFP #2 March 21, 2010 CP 3/28/2010
BFP # 3 August 1, 2010 baby boy April 7, 2011
BFP #4 February 9, 2013 missed miscarriage @ 15 weeks on May 1st , 2013.
fingers crossed BFP #5 10/03/2013 due June 10, 2014. Unplanned C-Section on May 29, 2014. Welcome Grant!
In my opinion since having a baby is not as easy as most of us thought it was before we started trying I agree with not planning your potential pregnancy around something like a best friend's wedding, despite how important it is.
If the pregnancy does end up interfering at all with the wedding or wedding related events I would just explain to her why you couldn't plan it around her. If she hasn't been through it herself or have close family members or friends who have had any issues with getting and/or staying pregnant she most likely wouldn't understand without an explanation.
Good luck!
TTC #2 since April 2012
Year 1 - nothing
Year 2 - two m/c
Year 3 - unexplained diagnosis & 4 failed IUIs with Clomid/Letrozole
Year 4 - still unexplained & 3 failed IUIs with Follistim & Ovidral
Year 5 - trying on our own
Began trying for a baby January 2012
BFP 4.25.2013 EDD 1.3.2014 MMC 6.3.2013 D&C 6.19.2013
BFP 11.3.2013 CP 11.6.2013
BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014
EXACTLY!! :