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All of you should read this. We are all amazing Mommies, and I know we struggle with feeling like we failed. Give this a read...

 

https://stillstandingmag.com/2013/06/why-you-didnt-fail-as-a-mother/

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  • PerkyErkyPerkyErky member
    I saw this yesterday. It made me cry but a good cry. It was a good reminder that I didn't fail and I really did do everything I could for my daughter. So often we are hardest on ourselves, I need to remember to be kinder to me.
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  • angelsnightangelsnight member

    Thank you.  Guilt, shame, regret, and the what if's is one of the things that makes me feel the worst and I needed this reminder that I shouldn't feel any of it.

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  • NoetholaNoethola member
    Love what a great resource Still Standing Magazine is. They produce great articles from those who KNOW.
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    I bawled my eyes out reading this. I saw it floating around my FB feed yesterday but couldn't bring myself to read it; I'm so glad I did, though.

     

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  • JessicaG220JessicaG220 member
    Wow this is an amazing piece. I felt like the person who wrote this was inside my head. It made me sad but also made me feel better. Thanks for sharing :

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  • princezjkprincezjk member
    It was a great piece, I absolutely feel everything she talks about.  And judging by the comments here, I am not the only one.  
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