This may be an odd question, and possibly all ready discussed.... but are nursing tanks necessary? I obviously have nursing bras all ready but I haven't gotten any tanks. I do not wear tank tops any other time. And honestly, I'm kind of done spending money on maternity clothes. So will a regular shirt be that annoying? Kind of the same question for nursing pjs. If I'm home and nursing I'm not going to care if I even have a shirt on to nurse. Thanks a bunch.
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I'm a FTM, but I actually only own two nursing tanks right now (and they are packed in my hospital bag).
I don't plan on buying more nursing bras until my milk comes in (because the couple I have now don't fit all that well since I keep growing out of them. I figured the tanks were a good compromise since they had more room to grow in between now and the first week or two post-partum.
I also just opted for one oversized night gown that buttoned halfway down, so I would have easy access to my breasts for feeding.
During the day I lived in nursing tanks. Around the house I wore those ALL the time. And when out and about, I would sometimes wear a nursing tank under a regular shirt. Other times I would wear one of my nursing bras under a stretchy top or low cut top. I hardly owned any true nursing tops because I had trouble finding ones I liked. And I nursed DD until she was 21 or 22 months and we nursed in public plenty of times early on. We made it work.
My suggestion is get one or two reasonably priced nursing tanks and nursing bras. Then as you get the hang of things and figure out what you like you could always invest in higher quantity and higher quality.
I've never used a nursing tank and never felt I was missing out on anything.
I usually wear another layer on top of a t-shirt, lift up from the bottom so the shirt is covering top boob, baby covers boob and my stomach, cardigan covers my side skin. Done.
I breast fed two kiddos without owning any nursing tanks or nursing pjs. There were times however, that I did nurse in public or at a friend's house where it would have been nice to have my stomach covered, so I did buy one nursing tank for this baby. As for nursing pjs, I just wore a sleep nursing bra and regular pjs.
They are absolutely not necessary.
That said, I live in mine with yoga pants for the first couple months.
It really is personal preference.
I only wore nursing tanks, no bras. I'm about a B cup normally so not super big or anything and didn't have any issues. I only wore a regular bra a handful of times until I stopped pumping at 9 months pp. I think it is just personal preference though because some prefer the bras.
ETA: Never bought the pjs or nursing shirts either.