DH's cousin is getting married, and the invite came today but it was just addressed to DH. What would you think? Do we just assume that I am not invited? He feels it was a mistake, but I don't know. I would also feel so rude and uncomfortable if someone called to ask if I was invited.
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Re: WWYD?
It depends on how close of cousins they are. Maybe they felt obligted to invite him but are trying to keep the number of guests down because they have a small venue or something and are hoping that by not inviting you he will just decline.
You could go through the grapevine to find out what the deal is, or YH could just decline the invite. Unless you guys both really want to go or YH is really close to this cousin and feels an obligation, I wouldn't bother.
I agree with PPs - You should go through back channels to find out. It would be VERY odd if your DH is invited and you're not. If they are that close to their idea number, then maybe they shouldn't have invited your DH either. It's just bad taste to exclude a spouse.
This is coming from someone who did not give everyone a plus one to my wedding. Spouses were always included. But flavors of the week were not =P