Trouble TTC

4 AM DTD fail

Siggy



So my husband had to leave today to go to Texas for work for the week. I triggered Saturday so we were supposed to DTD Sat, sun, and today. Well we tried but lets just say 4 AM is even too early for a Penis. Hopefully all our activity since Friday was enough. Note to self. Husbands should always get a late flight during fertile week!

Re: 4 AM DTD fail

  • I honestly cant imagine trying to be awake enough to attempt that. Kudos for effort

    TTC since July 2009. Dx MFI & LPD. 
    IUI#1&2&3 (2011 & 2012) BFN
    IUI#4 1/23/13 on 75iu x9 Follistim = BFP then chem preg m/c (Feb 2013)
    IUI#5 BFN (April 2013)
    IVF w/ICSI Oct. 2, 2012 - 13R, 11M, 7F, 1 frozen blast 4BB grade - - - FET Nov 15, 2013
    BFP! Beta 1:104 @ 10dp6dt, Beta 2:178 @ 12dp6dt,  beta 3:366 @ 14dp6dt
    Saw heartbeat twice before missed M/C at 8w3d on 12/27/13, missing my little angel boy
    JUNE 2014 IVF#2;  5R, 2M, 1F Three day transfer 6/7.  Beta 6/18 - BFN
    Child Free Now?
    S/PAIFW , S/PALW

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  • imageRumbera28:
    Awww... hopefully yesterday's session did the trick!nbsp; So sorry... I'm told that it's common in TTC due to frequency, stress and exhaustion. nbsp; My husband's urologist gave him a sample pack of Viagra just in case something
    like this happens.nbsp;


    He was able to get it up but just couldn't finish. Any tips on that? I think if we hasn't been HIO so much it wouldn't have been a problem but well it was.
  • imagecaroeliz02:
    imageRumbera28:
    Awww... hopefully yesterday's session did the trick!nbsp; So sorry... I'm told that it's common in TTC due to frequency, stress and exhaustion. nbsp; My husband's urologist gave him a sample pack of Viagra just in case something like this happens.nbsp;
    He was able to get it up but just couldn't finish. Any tips on that? I think if we hasn't been HIO so much it wouldn't have been a problem but well it was.

    We had that issue when we were doing it so much last IUI cycle.  I will say sometimes there is just nothing you can do.  But for future...there is one little trick that I've found on times when I'm finished and wish he'd hurry up.  For this trick I need to be on top (which I am 85% of the time anyway).  Be almost sitting up, take one hand and reach around behind you and massage and tug on his balls.  Gets DH to finish almost every time with just about one minute of stroking.  And (thanks Cosmo of my youth for this one) for that extra zing, push on the spot between balls and anus with a finger while you're doing this.   If I remember correctly, they equated that spot to a woman's clit.  Bundle of nerves.  Works like a charm.  


    TTC since July 2009. Dx MFI & LPD. 
    IUI#1&2&3 (2011 & 2012) BFN
    IUI#4 1/23/13 on 75iu x9 Follistim = BFP then chem preg m/c (Feb 2013)
    IUI#5 BFN (April 2013)
    IVF w/ICSI Oct. 2, 2012 - 13R, 11M, 7F, 1 frozen blast 4BB grade - - - FET Nov 15, 2013
    BFP! Beta 1:104 @ 10dp6dt, Beta 2:178 @ 12dp6dt,  beta 3:366 @ 14dp6dt
    Saw heartbeat twice before missed M/C at 8w3d on 12/27/13, missing my little angel boy
    JUNE 2014 IVF#2;  5R, 2M, 1F Three day transfer 6/7.  Beta 6/18 - BFN
    Child Free Now?
    S/PAIFW , S/PALW

    My Blog

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  • My DH works til midnight, so we frequently have very early morning lovin. Luckily so far we haven't had any problems, but I'm sure if its not your norm it'd be difficult!!

    Good luck!!
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  • imagekatib77:

    imagecaroeliz02:
    imageRumbera28:
    Awww... hopefully yesterday's session did the trick!nbsp; So sorry... I'm told that it's common in TTC due to frequency, stress and exhaustion. nbsp; My husband's urologist gave him a sample pack of Viagra just in case something like this happens.nbsp;
    He was able to get it up but just couldn't finish. Any tips on that? I think if we hasn't been HIO so much it wouldn't have been a problem but well it was.

    We had that issue when we were doing it so much last IUI cycle.  I will say sometimes there is just nothing you can do.  But for future...there is one little trick that I've found on times when I'm finished and wish he'd hurry up.  For this trick I need to be on top (which I am 85% of the time anyway).  Be almost sitting up, take one hand and reach around behind you and massage and tug on his balls.  Gets DH to finish almost every time with just about one minute of stroking.  And (thanks Cosmo of my youth for this one) for that extra zing, push on the spot between balls and anus with a finger while you're doing this.   If I remember correctly, they equated that spot to a woman's clit.  Bundle of nerves.  Works like a charm.  

     

    this is good info!  I will give that a try.  I do rememeber reading that in COSMO back in the day when I had time to actually read my magazines an they were not just out for decor lol ;) 

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