Today we went over to our friend's house for a BBQ and as expected DS didn't nap over there for his usual afternoon siesta. We got home at 5 and he fell asleep in the car on the way back so DH set him in the crib. It is now quarter to 7 and bedtime is usually between 8 and 8:30. I'm thinking that if DS wakes now or at 7 he might be good to stretch bedtime to 9 but if he "naps" past 7 I'm in for a long night. I don't think he will be happy waking up just to eat, take a bath, and go right back to bed. Should I wake him up now? Let him sleep? I can't remember if I've encountered this situation before.
Re: Wwa12d? Bedtime
Hopefully he doesn't wake up for the day at 4/5am!
If it were my DS, I'd wake him up. His internal clock is set that 9pm = bedtime and 6am = wakeup, so when he does take a late nap and I choose to wake him (normally to top off his belly with some milk), he normally goes back to bed just after 9. However, when I choose to let him sleep, he'll sleep until 6am. Early bedtime =/= earlier wakeup.
If you let him sleep, he may wake earlier but in return he may nap better tomorrow.