December 2013 Moms

It's a boy...? REALLY?

Are you sure?

Yeah, that was pretty much our reaction, haha. Pretty unexpected, I already have 2 boys and we were ALLLLLL convinced this baby was a girl. This whole pregnancy so far has been so different than with my other boys. I'm definitely in shock, but we did a bit of retail therapy after the ultrasound to ease that and get in the blue spirit. I'm sure after the initial shock and yes, the feelings of mourning the fact that I will never get to have a daughter of my own, start to wear off I'll be quite a bit more excited.

Still can't believe I'm going to have three sons. I hope the saying that there is a special place in heaven for moms of boys is true! 

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Re: It's a boy...? REALLY?

  • Congrats on your 3rd baby boy!

    I hope my baby is a boy I hear good things from my friends that had boys first :D

     

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  • Aww, congrats on your boy! I totally understand the mourning thing, but sounds like you are getting in the spirit. :) May the force be with you!
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  • I said today to my husband that I feel like I am mourning the loss of the girl I was convinced I was having. Like you, I know I'll be thrilled soon, but I am just shocked it's another boy!
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  • Congrats on your baby boy
  • There is actually a dinner/drinking club for moms of 3 or more boys only here. I have a number of friends that are members. 
  • I said the same thing when they said it was a girl..this is my first but I hv four nieces..I do feel better after starting baby girls nursery.
  • imageKateMW:
    There is actually a dinner/drinking club for moms of 3 or more boys only here. I have a number of friends that are members. 

     

    Sounds fantabulous... I need to find one! 

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    I'm expecting my 3rd boy as well mixed emotions. Even though I wanted a boy, there is something sad about never having a girl. But good news is we will never have a teenage girl!
  • Aww, congrats on another boy!  I totally know what you mean though.  We have 2 boys and this pregnancy has been totally different, more sick, more weight gain, etc.  So a part of me definitely thinks it's going to be a girl, but I also know not to get my hopes up either way.  I would honestly love another boy if we weren't done after this one.  So I get what you are saying about mourning the fact that you'll never have a daughter.  But I keep telling myself that if I have to have 3 of one sex I'm glad they're boys!!  

    You have 20+ more weeks to adjust to the idea of having another boy, and by the time he gets here I bet you wouldn't trade your situation for anything in the world :)

    Also, you may be seeing a verrrry similar post from me in a few weeks haha 

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    Are you sure?Yeah, that was pretty much our reaction, haha. Pretty unexpected, I already have 2 boys and we were ALLLLLL convinced this baby was a girl. This whole pregnancy so far has been so different than with my other boys. I'm definitely in shock, but we did a bit of retail therapy after the ultrasound to ease that and get in the blue spirit. I'm sure after the initial shock and yes, the feelings of mourning the fact that I will never get to have a daughter of my own, start to wear off I'll be quite a bit more excited. Still can't believe I'm going to have three sons. I hope the saying that there is a special place in heaven for moms of boys is true!nbsp;


    All of this except girls...was so hoping this was a boy. Very sad too. Then the vicious cycle of guilt set it but now almost a week later I'm good. It's hard to have all of either set. All I can say is god bless my patient husband cause 3 daughter through puberty and a wife going through menopause, he's gonna need ALOT of vacations :] congrats on your little men! Hey, we could trade....

     

     

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    I have 2 boys as well, and this pregnancy is completely different from my others.  We find out next week...I am sure I will have these same emotions if it's boy #3!  
  • I was told boy as well and DH and myself really wanted girl. We have an amazing little boy now but only wanted two. I don't know how to convince him we have to try one time for a girl. Congrats on your healthy baby
  • Congrats! I have two boys and I'm thinking baby #3 is a girl but now your making me think different hahaha. At least you know the ropes with the boy stuff :) 
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    imageKateMW:
    There is actually a dinner/drinking club for moms of 3 or more boys only here. I have a number of friends that are members. 

     

    Sounds fantabulous... I need to find one! 

    Wait until your kids hit school age, apparently all boy families are quite normal around here. So one of my friends started the group when her youngest was in K. You have to have at least three boys and only boys, no girls at all. :) 

  • I have two boys as well I'm obsessed with having a girl but I have a strong feeling we are having another boy! We find out on Wednesday! I'm going to be in total shock if its a girl!
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    imageKateMW:
    There is actually a dinner/drinking club for moms of 3 or more boys only here. I have a number of friends that are members. 

     

    Sounds fantabulous... I need to find one! 

    Wait until your kids hit school age, apparently all boy families are quite normal around here. So one of my friends started the group when her youngest was in K. You have to have at least three boys and only boys, no girls at all. :) 

     

    HAHA! How does that work for procreation in the area? Gotta find girls outside the locals? ;) Well my two are 7 and 5 and they are WORK, which is why I'm scared to have another boy!

    Told SO he may want to check into a better insurance policy, because my boys are so rough as it is. We've got broken bones, missing teeth, etc. If I can't find anything like this, this would be a great idea to start in my area! I know loads of all boy mamas!

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  • I completely understand where you are coming from. I want a little girl so bad. This is probably our last and another boy and I still won't really admit to myself it's a boy!
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  • Congrats on the three boys!  I already have three boys and it is great - they are really close!

    As for the mourning - totally understand.  We got an unofficial its a boy ("don't go buy clothes yet, but I am pretty sure") from the MFM a few weeks ago.  Not sure how many more times we are going to try for a girl. 

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  • imageHerbanMom:
    Are you sure?Yeah, that was pretty much our reaction, haha. Pretty unexpected, I already have 2 boys and we were ALLLLLL convinced this baby was a girl. This whole pregnancy so far has been so different than with my other boys. I'm definitely in shock, but we did a bit of retail therapy after the ultrasound to ease that and get in the blue spirit. I'm sure after the initial shock and yes, the feelings of mourning the fact that I will never get to have a daughter of my own, start to wear off I'll be quite a bit more excited. Still can't believe I'm going to have three sons. I hope the saying that there is a special place in heaven for moms of boys is true!nbsp;
    having boys at the best, especially if they become strong independent men surrounding and protecting their mommy.
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