Really NEED TO VENT

Tiffblue92 · June 2013

OK so to start my (god kids were born the 27th of april of this year and died on the 28th) The mom made me the god mom when she found out she was having twins well, I know this is bad but im starting to think they never existed cause, she doesnt or never did say anything about them anywhere and told me not to tell no one. She didnt tell anyone when she was pregnant so now im thinking she never was cause she said all of this within a 2 month span. Its really getting to me becaue she says they still havent barried them well by now there bodies would be in the staged of decomposition and they should have been barried a week at latest after they past. Its just getting to me cause she only sent me 4 pictures and they all were basically the same none of her holding them nothing. i just dont know what to think anymore i know i probably sound like a horrible person but i dont even know..

Tiffblue92 · June 2013

oh and now she is apparently pregnant again.

ks3pink · June 2013

You ate telling is this why???

huskymomma94 · June 2013

Uhhhhhhhhh....

capinjen152 · June 2013

Jigga what?

Bebuh · June 2013

Are you anything other then major drama?

proudworkingmom82 · June 2013

Kimbus22:
What the fluck?

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This. Im confused.

bugandbibs · June 2013

You make my head hurt.

MrsBoyer428 · June 2013

capinjen152:
Jigga what?

This.

Tiffblue92 · June 2013

The reason I am having my suspicions is on account that when I knew her when we were kids and she wouldn't tell the truth then outta nowhere she messaged me years later saying she wanted me to be the godmother, note I think she made it up cause she is good friends with a girl I used to be friends with up until she thought I lied about her sister when she went missing. Which I didn't, cause why would I when someone goes missing thats just messed up. I know I sound a drama queen self centered or What not, but I have every right to have my suspicions it really hurts me to think they didn't. I went out bought them all kinds of stuff then, she said all this stuff happened. just don't know What to think cause What if its true What if it's not. Either way I am not going to confront her because that that would cause a mess of trouble which I do not need. I do feel sorry for her if she did lose the babies and is pregnant again cause I know her husband doesn't want anything to do with her. ( she told me herself) I just hope everything goes well for her If she is pregnant cause apparently she is high risk. I know all of you are like wtf but I just don't know What to do should I just let it go and continue on.

rjeller32 · June 2013

Tiffblue92:
The reason I am having my suspicions due to the fact that I knew her when we were kids, and she wouldn't tell the truth. Then out of nowhere she messaged me years later saying she wanted me to be the godmother (note I think she made it up, because she is good friends with a mutual friend up until she thought I lied about her sister when she went missing. Which I didn't, because why would lie about when someone goes missing that's just messed up.)
I know I sound a drama queen, self centered or what not, but I have every right to have my suspicions. It really hurts me to think they didn't exist. I went out bought them all kinds of stuff and then she said all of this happened. I just don't know what to think. What if its true? What if it's not? Either way, I am not going to confront her. That would cause a mess of trouble, which I do not need.
I do feel sorry for her, if she did lose the babies and is pregnant again because I know her husband doesn't want anything to do with her (she told me herself).
I just hope everything goes well for her. If she is pregnant, she is apparently high risk. I know all of you are like "WTF", but I just don't know what to do. Should I just let it go and continue on?

Grammar really helps you seem less crazy. Just an FYI.

Keep your nose out of your friends life. Obviously you didn't see her in the 9 months she was pregnant, or the years prior. So she can't be that great of a friend.

Runaway22 · June 2013

So, you never really see this person, but you agreed to be the godmother of her children? I don't understand.

kcisthebombdotcom · June 2013

My guess is you're both 15 and she made up the pregnancy because she was bored.

rjeller32 · June 2013

Yes

KC_13:
My guess is you're both 15 and she made up the pregnancy because she was bored.

Tiffblue92 · June 2013

I'm 21 I agreed to be the godmother cause she was a good person back when we were kids I'm just having my suspicious. I mean how do you have a baby in a two months span. Stuff just don't add up. But that's just me. I'm gonna let it go and be happy with my life.

Tiffblue92 · June 2013

The reason my grammar is so horrible, is because that I am on a mobile phone when I reply to messages. I am just going to let everything be. Due to the fact, that I have other issues I must worry about. Thank you All for your input.

JocelynB0911 · June 2013

Tiffblue92:
The reason my grammar is so horrible, is because that I am on a mobile phone when I reply to messages. I am just going to let everything be. Due to the fact, that I have other issues I must worry about. Thank you All for your input.

Using "...but I'm on mobile" is no excuse for poor grammar. Ever. If you are telling me you cant take the time do go back and re-read your post before hitting submit/post then you are just lazy.

Just because someone was a good person (that you said lied all the time) back when you were younger doesnt make it true now. People change. They can get crazier over time and the lies more elaborate. Maybe she told you she was pregnant (if it was true in the first place) during her third trimester and that is where the 2 month deal would come in but you would have noticed her showing. There are just too many points that dont add up in your story or hers at that. Worry about your own drama from now on and leave others personal issues alone.

sueann911 · June 2013

What the helll did I just read?

Are you saying she delivered the twins and didn't bury them? And you think she still has their bodies somewhere?

rjeller32 · June 2013

GhostMonkey:
Tiffblue92:
The reason my grammar is so horrible, is because that I am on a mobile phone when I reply to messages. I am just going to let everything be. Due to the fact, that I have other issues I must worry about. Thank you All for your input.
Mobile can cause typos and unfortunate autocorrects. It does not give you poor syntax.

It does on account of it's special powers and stuff.

Tiffblue92 · June 2013

My punctuation is crappy OK, my bad. I am writing it as I would say it, not as if I am writing a story. Within the two months, how does one go from not being pregnant, to having two children? Another question within my mind is. When she told me they were born one weighed 6 lbs 6 oz and the other weighed 6 lbs and 7 oz. She told me herself that one had lung problems and the other had something wrong with his heart. My question is since they knew the obvious cause of death, why would there be such a delay or their burial. It all just does not add up to me. I know that all y'all are criticizing my grammar, I do apologize. I also know that you all think that I am nothing but drama, that is not the case here. I am just very suspicious of this, none of the points add up correctly.

JocelynB0911 · June 2013

Tiffblue92:
My punctuation is crappy OK, my bad. I am writing it as I would say it, not as if I am writing a story. Within the two months, how does one go from not being pregnant, to having two children? Another question within my mind is. When she told me they were born one weighed 6 lbs 6 oz and the other weighed 6 lbs and 7 oz. She told me herself that one had lung problems and the other had something wrong with his heart. My question is since they knew the obvious cause of death, why would there be such a delay or their burial. It all just does not add up to me. I know that all y'all are criticizing my grammar, I do apologize. I also know that you all think that I am nothing but drama, that is not the case here. I am just very suspicious of this, none of the points add up correctly.

I guess its just going to have to remain a mystery then. Seriously, how the hell are we supposed to know. Birth weights have nothing to do with lung or heart development. While 6lb6oz is on the heavier side for twins, it still doesnt mean they were born early. Like I said before did she tell you how far along she was when she asked you to be the Godmother? If not, then you really dont know for sure yourself if its possible or impossible to go from being pregnant to not pregnant in two months and have babies that weight that much.

My suggestion, drop it and stop bothering the board about it.

ETA: This isnt a blog, write it as a story.

Tiffblue92 · June 2013

I'm just going to drop it. Thank you all for your time. It will just remain a mystery.

Tiffblue92 · June 2013

No I create nothing for my own entertainment, what do you mean by a person like me?,

Tiffblue92 · June 2013

I'm honestly thinking about just deleting this whole post, due to the fact that only one person has given me helpful advice. Yes I know its rude, but its also rude when you rely on my other post to see what kind of person I am. I am a goodhearted kind woman, that really has been through hell and back. I don't take to kindly to people saying I'm nothing but drama, when I am just expressing my feeling about having my suspicions. None you ladies know me personally and I would like to get to know some of you and better get to know ladies within this site. Thank you ladies for your advice. Goodnight.

JocelynB0911 · June 2013

Tiffblue92:
I'm honestly thinking about just deleting this whole post, due to the fact that only one person has given me helpful advice. Yes I know its rude, but its also rude when you rely on my other post to see what kind of person I am. I am a goodhearted kind woman, that really has been through hell and back. I don't take to kindly to people saying I'm nothing but drama, when I am just expressing my feeling about having my suspicions. None you ladies know me personally and I would like to get to know some of you and better get to know ladies within this site. Thank you ladies for your advice. Goodnight.

The only thing anyone has to go on is your other posts. If you truly want to get to know people on this site then seriously stop posting about your drama. Great, you had your suspicions about your "friend" but what did you expect to get from anyone on this site? No one cares about the nonsensical drama that is going on in your life. No one really knows you around here and from what we do know its nothing but your petty drama.

So I am saying this from the bottom of my heart, grow up. A lot of us have been through "hell and back" as you put it but the majority of us have put it aside and are moving on with our lives. I believe it was you who wanted to try for a baby but are not in the best position to do so? Try to focus on your education and getting a decent job. If you feel that this person was lying to you like she has in the past then cut her out of your life. You were the one letting the drama back into your life when you started hanging out with her again.

ETA: Go ahead and delete this post. Its going to just add to the fact that you are being immautre and wont go over well.

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