TTC after 35

2nd Beta Results

Had 2nd beta this morning. 2nd beta results, little one did not stick. Bummed and do not know what to do. I have been crying since I got the news. Words of encouragement really needed. I really thought this was the one. All my numbers were good. It was good up until 2nd beta. What could have gone wrong? Trying to understand.
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Me-39, HSG 2/13- clear. DS-IUI #1-3/13,300iu Menopur 12 days,3 days Cetrotide, Ovidrel Trigger-BFN. IUI #2 06/13, BFP EDD: 02/22/14 m/c (cp), IUI #3- BFP EDD: 5/17/14 m/c 09/13. Blood work/RPL panel- nk cell/MTHFR mutation- negative. Blood work all good. Unexplained reason for m/c. IUI #4 BFP m/c (cp) 10/13. IUI #5- 12/13 Cancelled. No response. (1)follicle. IUI #5.1- 2/14. IVF Bound

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Re: 2nd Beta Results

  • QOTRQOTR member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.   I've found the Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss board very helpful.   Take care of yourself while you heal.
    Me-41, Hubby-40.
    1st BFP-8/17/12!  Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US.  D&C.
    2nd BFP-2/13/13!  Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
    3rd BFP-5/22/13!  By early June, progesterone plummeting.  Another loss.
    August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
    Dear Son born 5/28/14
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  • imageQOTR:
    I'm so sorry for your loss.   I've found the Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss board very helpful.   Take care of yourself while you heal.

    This.....Sending Warm Hugs your way.....so, sorry for your loss.  But, know you are more than welcome to stay here, too.  We are here to support you.  Just speechless for you.......

    Lilypie Trying to Conceive 15 to 80 day cycle tickers
  • Thank you. I find it more comfortable here. RE consult on Monday. I guess I will pull myself together, and see what and where we go from there. I am really realizing that this is a hard process. My first IUI-bfn, i was down. Now this 2nd IUI-bfp but then not. Oh my god this is hard. I think I could of handled it if it was a bfn.
    BabyFetus Ticker

    Me-39, HSG 2/13- clear. DS-IUI #1-3/13,300iu Menopur 12 days,3 days Cetrotide, Ovidrel Trigger-BFN. IUI #2 06/13, BFP EDD: 02/22/14 m/c (cp), IUI #3- BFP EDD: 5/17/14 m/c 09/13. Blood work/RPL panel- nk cell/MTHFR mutation- negative. Blood work all good. Unexplained reason for m/c. IUI #4 BFP m/c (cp) 10/13. IUI #5- 12/13 Cancelled. No response. (1)follicle. IUI #5.1- 2/14. IVF Bound

    ********************SAIF/ PAIF/ ALL ARE WELCOME***********************
  • jbellejbelle member

    imageSunni01:
    My first IUI-bfn, i was down. Now this 2nd IUI-bfp but then not. Oh my god this is hard. I think I could of handled it if it was a bfn.

    I'm really sorry. I think that would be so hard to get excited only to have those squashed; I hope the fact that you got pregnant is a great sign and you'll have success soon.

    AMA & SAIF. TTC #1 since Oct. 2010. DX: Unexplained. BFP on break after 32 months trying and 2 med cycles. Baby girl born at 40w0d!

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    jbelle

  • on42on42 member
    I just lost my first pregnancy at 5 weeks, about three weeks ago. I'm so sorry. It may not feel like it right now, but time is a willing healer. Sending you love and more love. xo

    Sarah, 38 | Nathan, 40 | Maxine b. 11/2014 | TTC #2


  • I'm so sorry. Big hugs your way :(

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • I am really sorry.  It is very hard and just treat yourself well and have a lot of rest.
  • Thanks everyone. Feeling better today. Cried it out yesterday. Going to rest today and prepare for RE consult on Monday. I think I am going to shoot for cycle #3 soon. Reading some of what you ladies have gone through has given strength to move forward. 

    All of your words were comforting. I really appreciate it. Sending ((hugs)) and many thanks to you all.

    BabyFetus Ticker

    Me-39, HSG 2/13- clear. DS-IUI #1-3/13,300iu Menopur 12 days,3 days Cetrotide, Ovidrel Trigger-BFN. IUI #2 06/13, BFP EDD: 02/22/14 m/c (cp), IUI #3- BFP EDD: 5/17/14 m/c 09/13. Blood work/RPL panel- nk cell/MTHFR mutation- negative. Blood work all good. Unexplained reason for m/c. IUI #4 BFP m/c (cp) 10/13. IUI #5- 12/13 Cancelled. No response. (1)follicle. IUI #5.1- 2/14. IVF Bound

    ********************SAIF/ PAIF/ ALL ARE WELCOME***********************
  • Can totally empathize with you, having miscarried after 6 weeks with our first IUI.  I know right now it is tough, but there are some positives:  #1 You CAN get pregnant--some women on here can't even say that. And you did with only an IUI.  There is definitely hope.  #2: You still have time--I know it doesn't seem like it it--but at 39 years of age, you have PLENTY of time to keep trying.  Time heals all wounds and it will get better as the months pass--trust me on this.    
  • imagebelgirl:
    Can totally empathize with you, having miscarried after 6 weeks with our first IUI.  I know right now it is tough, but there are some positives:  #1 You CAN get pregnant--some women on here can't even say that. And you did with only an IUI.  There is definitely hope.  #2: You still have time--I know it doesn't seem like it it--but at 39 years of age, you have PLENTY of time to keep trying.  Time heals all wounds and it will get better as the months pass--trust me on this.    

    Thanks. Words of encouragement is what I needed. Everyone has been so supportive. It is very comforting.

    BabyFetus Ticker

    Me-39, HSG 2/13- clear. DS-IUI #1-3/13,300iu Menopur 12 days,3 days Cetrotide, Ovidrel Trigger-BFN. IUI #2 06/13, BFP EDD: 02/22/14 m/c (cp), IUI #3- BFP EDD: 5/17/14 m/c 09/13. Blood work/RPL panel- nk cell/MTHFR mutation- negative. Blood work all good. Unexplained reason for m/c. IUI #4 BFP m/c (cp) 10/13. IUI #5- 12/13 Cancelled. No response. (1)follicle. IUI #5.1- 2/14. IVF Bound

    ********************SAIF/ PAIF/ ALL ARE WELCOME***********************
  • Jen82JJen82J member

    Sunni, I was so sorry to read your bad news. I haven't had the chance to get on the discussion boards sooner, so I apologize for not seeing it sooner. I can only imagine what you are going through. My sister went through something similar last September after InVitro. First her test was negative, then it was suddenly positive, so they had to test again and that time it was negative. We had been hopeful they were just late growers, but it must have been a chemical pregnancy.

    We can continue to support each other in our journey. Who knows, maybe our next IUIs will be on the same schedule again. I see my doc for a consult on July 15th. We decided to sit this cycle out, which ended up being a good thing. Perhaps I should talk about that on another post though. Anyway, keep us posted on what your doc says. Hang in there, it will happen eventually.

    November 2004, pregnant with first child at age 22 without fertility treatments. Baby boy born 8/5/2005! Diagnosed with PCOS while trying to conceive baby #2 in 2009. Six months on Clomid with no follies. May 2010: Clomid, Follistim, and Ovidrel Trigger, IUI #1-6/7/2010, BFP!! Healthy baby boy born 2/21/2011! TTC baby #3 since October 2012. Clomid, Follistim, and Ovidrel trigger in Oct. One good follie. IUI--BFN. November 2012, dropped Clomid and just tried higher dose of Follistim. Had to keep increasing dose but finally had to cancel the cycle because of no growth. Six month break. May 17, 2013, started 20 units Lupron twice a day. Day 3 started 100 IU Follistim. No growth on day 8, some growth on day 12, raised to 125 IU Follistim. Day 15, almost mature follicle! One more day of Follistim then Ovidrel trigger day 16. IUI #2 6/3/13. Trying to Conceive Ticker
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