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February 2014 Moms
Havlous
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With a heavy heart...
Havlous
member
I am having a MC. I spent all night in the hospital but they could find nothing on US, my blood work preg. test came back at a 5, 3 urine tests at 3 different places were negative & I am heavily bleeding now. (I was just spotting before). I just wanted to say thank you ladies for your welcoming attitude. I hope for the best for all of you & your precious little bundles of joy. I feel so alone. I am not sure what is normal right now. I am loosing control of my bowels, bleeding heavier & heavier (not enough to soak a pad or anything but it is def. there) I am scared,nervous,angry, sad, everything all at once.
Again Thank you all for your kindness & support. Good luck & I pray it all turns out better for you all then it did me & my little surprise.
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Re: With a heavy heart...
Hi,
I know it is a rough time, but you will get through this. I was pregnant back in the beginning of november and lasted until new years eve; I was 10 weeks pregnant and had a MC. It ended up being a blighted ovum, but doctors were surprised that my body held onto the pregnancy for such a long time. A lot of people have MC, we just don't hear about it. My husband and I tried for the first time in May and we were able to conceive again. Just don't lose hope..."There can be miracles when you believe"
Im so sorry.
Hugs coming your way
♥ The Blog ♥
BFP #1 5.26.08 DD born 1.4.09
BFP #2 3.11.12 m/c 3.26.12
BFP #3 10.7.12 m/c 10.27.12
BFP #4 2.24.13 ectopic MTX 3.13.13 Right tube removed 3.29.13
BFP #5 5.27.13 DS born 1.22.14
BFP #6 4.14.16
Sorry for your loss, take care of yourself and talk to your doctor if you are concerned. Hang in there!!
I am so sorry you are going through this
TTC#2=July 2011: Surprise BFP: Chemical Pregnancy
I am so, so sorry for your loss.
Please don't feel alone. That is one thing you definitely are not. Feeling sad and lost and angry is so completely normal, and don't be hard on yourself for feeling every which way. When I had my miscarriage back in 2011, I knew no one else IRL who had had one. I wallowed in my misery, consuming every second of a better part of 8 weeks googling & trying to figure out why, and how, and what I could have done to prevent it. The best thing you can do is surround yourself with support and people who care and love you. Talking about it is the best medicine (at least for me). At first I didn't want to talk about it because I didn't want to hear "Oh im so sorry" from everyone. I just wanted it to end. But then once I did start talking about it, I found that I became more myself again and felt good that others understood (or at least knew) what I was going through; that I didn't have to pretend to act happy if that's what I wasn't feeling.
Anyways, many T&Ps to you. Take care of yourself!
Child #1 June 2012
Child #2 Feb 2014
Child #3 Feb 16
BFP 3/9/17
June/July 2011 - IVF #1 - Transfer cancelled due to OHSS
23 perfect embryos. All 23 made it to freezing!
September/October - FET #1 - October 12th - 2 Grade A embies
October 20th - BFP??! EDD - July 1, 2012
Beta #1 = 154, Beta #2 = 352 Beta #3 = 3,800
U/S #2 - November 14th = 133 bpm! U/S #3 & 4 - November 30th and December 7th = 163 bpm! U/S#5 - January 30th - TEAM PINK!!!
Baby Sweets born on her due date!
I'm so sorry for you loss.
It's a heartbreaking event.
Sending prayers your way...
Make a pregnancy ticker
Oh I'm so sorry. This was similar to my 1st loss and I know that it can be very scary. I hope you're doing OK today and taking good care of yourself.
The miscarriage/loss board is great and when you're ready TTCAL is wonderfully supportive.
TTC #1 since 1/10
DX: Unexplained/??? MFI issues
Our lil' lost sparks:
5w3d loss 7/30/10 - EDD March 2011
8w loss 4/15/11 - EDD November 2011
8w3d loss 8/2/12 - EDD March 2013
4w c/p loss 10/29/12 - EDD July 2013
Long story: trying on our own + testing testing testing with 6 rounds of Clomid, more testing, injectables + TI, laparoscopy - one tube blocked, 2 IUIs with Follistim...BFNs.
RPL testing all normal, Karyotyping normal
Moving on to IVF.
IVF #1 April 2012 = BFN, IVF #2 June 2012 = BFP. U/S 7/23 = saw heartbeat but measuring behind. Follow up U/S on 7/30 - no heartbeat. D&C 8/2. Trisomy 12. IVF #3 Oct 2012 = Chemical Pregnancy
Phone consult with CCRM on 12/12/12 - ODWU 1/4/13 - both tubes clear(!) - AFC 24, AMH 3.2, FSH 9.6, LH 5.4, E2 25. DH has high frag rate but improved!
IVF #4 March 2013 CCRM. EP protocol w/ Menopur, Gonal-F & Dexamethasone. ER 3/29 & IMSI, PICSI. 43R 13M 10F 6blasts bio'd. CCS testing reveals 3 normals!!!
FET 5/31/13 of 1 4AA blast - thawed and expanded. 4dp5dt BFP.
Beta 9dp5dt = 181, 11dp5dt = 427. 1st u/s showed a healthy heartbeat! EDD 2/16/14
After 4 years of hoping and heartbreak, our sweet little bean was born on 2/19/14
We are so in love with her.
"I'm not telling you it's going to be easy, I'm telling you it's going to be worth it."
Everybody is welcome!!!
I am very sorry. Please take care.
Hugs