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do I have a right to be upset?

diego299diego299 member
in October 2011 Moms
We had our 12 week apt this am, everything looked great. Both babies HB were strong and baby A was flipping all over the place. I didn't get to ask any of my questions. I felt really rushed and then my OB was gone. I don't even know what type of twins I have or how many placentas I have or where anything is located. I have placenta previa and hemorrhaging with DS so it's a fear of mine. DH just keeps saying the babies look good and that's all that matters, and he's right but I have to wait another month to get answers. There's really nothing I can do at this point but I'm still irked by it.



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Hystroscopy to remove cysts 11/2010
IVF #1 with ICSI Graydon Dane born Oct. 23, 2011 via c-section at 38 weeks.
Surprise BFP 10/9/12. Blighted ovum at 8wks. D&C 11/1/12.
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Re: do I have a right to be upset?

  • ellewoodsSCellewoodsSC member
    I am sorry that your appt was so rushed.  Can you follow up with office and pose your questions now?  I hope that they put this kind of notable information in the u/s report, so they might be able to address some of these concerns. 
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  • peelester429peelester429 member

    imageellewoodsSC:
    I am sorry that your appt was so rushed.  Can you follow up with office and pose your questions now?  I hope that they put this kind of notable information in the u/s report, so they might be able to address some of these concerns. 

    This exactly.  I've called back many times after appointments when I've had questions I didn't ask or concerns that popped up in my head later.  Call back to ease your mind.  Though I'm glad both babies looked so good!

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    2nd medicated cycle ~ 7/12/13 ~ Clomid and trigger shot ~ BFN
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  • morsey2011morsey2011 member
    I would be upset too. I would try calling and talking to someone to see if you can get more information.
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  • Nita2603Nita2603 member
    My guess is if try say nothing, there is nothing to be said. I would be annoyed too though. I know from my u/s reports that the position of placenta and stuff like that is mentioned there. I would call and ask questions.

    Yay for healthy babies!!!
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  • mrsgabusmrsgabus member

    i would give the Ob office a call and ask to speak to a nurse. TEll her you have some questions that you wanted answered but were unable to get answered at your appt. 

    i called my Ob's office a few times to ask questions that i didnt get to ask at my appts 


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  • thetheisensthetheisens member
    I would be annoyed. Yes, doctors are busy, but you are paying them for their time. I would want my doctor to take enough time to answer my questions (within a reasonable amount of time), especially if there is a past history that you are concerned about.
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  • wilsontl19191wilsontl19191 member
    This type of sh!t is why I switched to a new practice for this pregnancy.
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  • kagl08kagl08 member
    Glad the babies looked good, but that would have annoyed me also. I hope you called them and got some answers! Waiting a month would not have been something I would have wanted to do. I completely understand your frustration. 
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