Hey ladies.
I haven't been active on TB since my daughter was born, but we have just started TTC #2 so I'm back at it
With DD, I had a non-emergency C-section. I am diabetic and that had a lot to do with out decision to go for the C/S. My diabetes was pretty well managed throughout my pregnancy and I was followed very closely by my perinatologist. LO was completely healthy. The more I think about it, the more bummed I get that I never experienced labor and would really like to with our next LO. I've been reading a lot about VBACs and most of what I read says the same - that in order to have a VBAC you have to have a healthy, normal pregnancy. Almost everything I've seen says that a pre-existing condition, such as diabetes, pretty much means no go for VBAC. Does anyone have any insight or information on this?
Me (33). DH (37). DD (2.2012). MCs x4. After 4 years & 7 months, due 4.2018!
Re: XP: High risk VBAC? (Diabetic)
I have a friend who has had three c-sections. She wanted a VBAC with her second child, she tried but ended up with another c-section.
You cannot be induced for a VBAC (or at least most doctors won't do it). So you would have to have a doctor who would be willing to let you go long enough to go into labor on your own.
I know with my OB (and I am GD) she is going to induce me between 39 and 40 weeks. She says she may let me go as long as 40. I have been really bummed about that because I think the chances are slim that I will go early, so chances are good I am going to have to be induced.
I am also upset that I feel like I am going to be missing out on going into labor (since I will be induced).
Do you know if your doctor will let you go to 40 weeks? Do you think you would go into labor on your own before or at 40 weeks?
When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.
Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
Expecting Baby Bean February 2017
I know that a lot of people do VBACs successfully but my own experience in my family would completely dissuade me from going that route. The risks are real and the consequences (if anything goes wrong) to both you and your little are serious. One of the complications with my cousin's VBAC was that she creates larger babies. The prior scar on the uterus simply couldn't withstand the pressure, so it burst during labor and the domino effect and outcome for their LO will traumatize them for life. He has pretty serious cerebral palsy, all due to complications from trying to deliver a larger baby via VBAC.
I hate to provide a doom and gloom angle, and I have actually never said anything to mothers considering VBAC. But in your case with diabetes and the known risk of larger babies, I thought it would be relevant to provide context to consider. Ultimately, its up to you and your doctor. Best of luck TTC#2!
M/C #2 - October 2016
MMC #1 - April 2016
Thank you for sharing this, I am so glad someone provided a real life example of how things can go terribly wrong. In my humble opinion, VBAC is a very bad idea in the best of circumstances. I do not think someone who is high risk in any way should even consider it for two seconds. Speaking as someone who has suffered tremendously after losing a baby, I can promise you that if something happens to your baby b/c you "want to experience going into labor," you will deeply regret it.
BFP #1 1/2010, M/C 6 weeks
BFP #2 6/2010, DD lost to congenital heart disease, we are heartbroken.
TTC #2 4/2011, diagnosed MTHFR, FVL
Four natural cycles BFN; Clomid IUI BFN; Follistim IUI BFN;
1/2012 IVF #1 BFN
4/2012 FET BFP #3
5/2012 7w1d u/s: anembryonic demise; M/C @ 8w.
6/2012 found Stage II/III endo on laparoscopy, removed w/ laser.
8/2012 IVF #2 epic fail: no viable embryos.
Vacation, break, second opinions, on to new RE.
1/2013 Surprise chemical pregnancy BFP #4 (break cycle), IVF #3 postponed.
2/2013 TI w/ hormonal support, prednisone, aspirin, Lovenox, acupuncture gave us a miracle BFP #5!
Heartbeat on U/S at 6w1d! Baby,please stay!!
Me (33). DH (37). DD (2.2012). MCs x4. After 4 years & 7 months, due 4.2018!