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I'm broken.

bigbootyjudibigbootyjudi member
in August 2012 Moms
This will probably be TMI, but whatever.

I'm serious.

Okay, so, SO and I will be DTD, I'll feel like I'm going to O, almost get there, then...nothing...like, I lose it...but all the "evidence" is there that I actually Oed [I mean, if you need a description, I'll give it to you...but...].

I feel like crying. WTAF. This has happened almost every [rare] time I've Oed. I haven't actually "felt" one since 2011. Seriously.

Am I the only one? What do I even do? I mean, I've never Oed easily, but doing so and not even feeling it? COME ON. Literally.
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Re: I'm broken.

  • fastcarsandfreedom3319fastcarsandfreedom3319 member
    I totally know what you mean. And it happens way too often for my liking. I have found that when I'm really tired or my mind is elsewhere this happens more. But lately it has been getting better, more like it used to. Hope that is some consolation!
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  • twoitalianstwoitalians member
    I very rarely can even O now with or without H. Usually I can't because my mind is on other things, mom things. Plus, I get to where I go numb, or not really numb, but no feeling whatsoever down there. It sucks, but I figure I just have to clear my mind and focus on the matter at hand [sometimes literally, if you will] and find other ways to get the tingly juices flowing. I'm finding now that nipple stimulation goes a long way to help when before I hated having DH touch my breasts. So maybe you need to try some other things that you haven't done before or in a long time? Also clear your mind too? You may think you are but are you sure you're not subconsciously running through a list of what needs done the next day, for example?
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  • cedentoncedenton member
    I find that the harder I try to O the more likely that is to happen. maybe try to relax and tell yourself it doesn't matter, you're just being intimate and enjoying time with SO.
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  • rp-chicago-momrp-chicago-mom member
    Do you practice alone? I had a problem like this several years ago and H and I would be together and it would be great and then nothing. He bought me a vibrator and I practiced alone as much as I could (within reason. I still lead a normal life!) and eventually I relarned how to O. It has not been a problem since.
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  • latnprincesslatnprincess member

    imageBaker_Bride:
    Do you practice alone? I had a problem like this several years ago and H and I would be together and it would be great and then nothing. He bought me a vibrator and I practiced alone as much as I could (within reason. I still lead a normal life!) and eventually I relarned how to O. It has not been a problem since.

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