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Father's Day...

I don't talk to my BD, and I won't be wishing him a happy father's day. I instead am hoping that he will feel awful about what he did and the fact he doesn't have anything to do with DD.

Instead I'm going to wish her god father's a happy father's day because they fill his role in her life and go above and beyond to make sure she knows she's loved and spoiled rotten.

 I'm bitter. 

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PCOS -Fibroids -Type 1 Diabetes

Re: Father's Day...

  • I understand. I'm still feeling bitter and hurt but I will wish my ex DH a happy father's day and help my daughter make something for him. Each year I always do something nice and treat him and buy him a funny card and write something sweet and gooey inside. Not this year.

     

    it makes me really sad thinking about it....:(

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  • Boooooooo.

    That's all I got. 

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  • right there with you. I'm extremely bitter! Eff him 

    I'm going to do something extra nice for my dad this year. He took me and my son in and he's been amazing to us..  

  • I'm pretty bitter too. I mean, I have someone new in my life right now but I don't think I'll be like "happy father's day!" to him.  As for BD, I have been dreaming about shooting him a text message on father's day saying "remember, fathering a child and being a father are two separate things.  have fun celebrating the fact that you basically created a child and ran off like a scared little ***!".  Of course, I'm not actually going to send him anything.  But I know he plans to celebrate being a daddy to his new gf's child.
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  • Let's go get some pie together. LOL
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  • My son's father isn't completely out of the picture...he's around when it's convenient for him.  I will not be wishing him a HFD and will not be doing anything cute or special for him.  I tried to be nice to him on his b'day...I got him a gift card.  He literally threw it back at me and told me it was pointless for me to give him "money" when he's paying me child support all the time.  First of all, a$$hole, you pay cs at random.  Second of all, I was just trying to be nice to you...you can bet I won't make that mistake again!!!

    I'm bitter!

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  • If we all lived close enough, I'd say it's a date! I think that would be super fun!

    Men are stupid...jmccall79 do you need pie too? 

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    30 - Waiting to TTC#2

    PCOS -Fibroids -Type 1 Diabetes

  • I think of father's day more of a double Mother's Day.
  • I'm on the same page with everyone that posted. I'm bitter as well. And it breaks my heart to look at my son and just see his father in him. My son is only a week and 2 days old. And baby daddy just doesn't even care he was there for the birth and saw him a couple days later and now he wants nothing to do with him. I sent txt w a picture of his son that said happy Father's Day. And I got back thanks Baby daddy has two other kids and they are his top priority and my son is just pushed to the side. Baby daddy will realize later what he is missing out on
  • Wow! I'm bitter for you...that precious little boy and his father doesn't care...it reminds me of when I was in the nursing school. I had my daughter 7 weeks before and we did our OBGYN clinicals. I was in the newborn nursery with a baby who's mom was in the ICU in a coma due to the delivery not going well. No family came to visit that little baby, so me and another nursing student who was also a mom just loved on him and cuddled him and we rocked him and sang to him and talked to him...People forget how important and precious our little ones are...I'm glad your little boy has you for a wonderful mother!
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    30 - Waiting to TTC#2

    PCOS -Fibroids -Type 1 Diabetes

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