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For your viewing pleasure (she finally contacted us)

reinedecajunreinedecajun member
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I'm trying to let this crap go but im getting more angry by the minute. Shes avoiding us like a plague and posting all this crap on facebook. Here's a list of my mil's passive aggressive post over the last 48 hours! So is it ok to delete her now???FUUUCK MY LYFE Huh?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And finally...the kicker..

 Have you ever heard the old saying? " They never remember what you did right and always remember what you got wrong?" I always that was about the workplace. It isn't.

My reply:  I'll bite since this is so passive aggressive...it's not about what you did do it's about what you didn't. We just want your grandchild to know who you are, I dont think that's a bad thing.

How in the hell do I keep my cool about her avoidance!!!???? 

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  • reinedecajunreinedecajun member
    imagekitchencolors:

    How does she even find that crap?  Does she google "passive aggressive quotations" or something?  Ugh.

    I'm so sorry she's being such a twat.

    Gurl I was wondering the same thing!!!!

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  • BubbaJugBubbaJug member

    I wouldn't keep my cool. I'd be like...You suck, a lot, for these reasons....

    And I'd do it to her face so there would be no waiting around for her to respond or watching her passive aggressive posts show up on facebook day after day after day. 

    I hate passive aggressive more than anything in lyfe. 

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  • reinedecajunreinedecajun member
    Bubbajug knowing my temper I'm afraid that's what's going to happen and it ain't going to be pretty.
    She is still sharing videos and photos of Frankie off my husbands Facebook. It's infuriating, I'm really trying to keep my cool for my husbands sake but I can't make promises on that.
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  • reinedecajunreinedecajun member
    imageandreab7412:
    What a twat! We blocked my mil, she is also a sociopath though. I would delete that ***!
    yeah shew hidden on mine but then my husband is like Dur dur look at this. Of course I HAVE to look.
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  • reinedecajunreinedecajun member
    imagemrsmckinky:
    Maybe better to defriend her and move on?nbsp; Or at least, defriend her and let her know that while you would like to have a relationship with her, maybe Facebook isn't the best place to do it at least not until she responds to your emails.nbsp; Ridiculous.
    I think that's what's going to happen. I actually called her yesterday, surprise no answer. She needs to grow some balls.
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    imagereinedecajun:
    Bubbajug knowing my temper I'm afraid that's what's going to happen and it ain't going to be pretty. She is still sharing videos and photos of Frankie off my husbands Facebook. It's infuriating, I'm really trying to keep my cool for my husbands sake but I can't make promises on that.

    Well, like you said...She sucks a fat one so what do you care if you piss her off??? :) 

    Do it! Do it! Do it! 

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  • reinedecajunreinedecajun member

    LOL Yall are to much. Yeah I do feel like she's trying to make me/us look bad. I assume she is directing this towards my husband as well because she's contacted neither one of us. 

    I think my reason for wanting to not delete her is because I dont want to make anything worse, kwim? I'm sure she would use that against me as well. But with that being said im heading on over to facebook now to hit that fantastic "Unfriend" button.

     

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    imageMissMusic:
    Ho. Ly. Mother.She is the queen of passiveaggressive BS, isn't she?!nbsp; She can post her thinly veiled feelings all over FB for the world to read, but she can't talk to you personally? nbsp; Unbelievable.I think you should post this photo and say nothing. or this onenbsp;or possibly this
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  • snickersforeveryonesnickersforeveryone member

    Glad you are unfriending her.  I'd also write her an email telling her that if she cannot discuss the situation with you and your husband like an adult, then you are going to cut all ties with her until she does. 

    She sucks.  I'm sorry she's not being a better grandma for your kids.

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    imagereinedecajun:
    Bubbajug knowing my temper I'm afraid that's what's going to happen and it ain't going to be pretty. She is still sharing videos and photos of Frankie off my husbands Facebook. It's infuriating, I'm really trying to keep my cool for my husbands sake but I can't make promises on that.

    "lock" the photos. Tell her she is more than welcome to post all the pics of Frankie her wall can handle... BUT they have to come from her camera/phone. If she is the amazing grandmother she claims, this shouldn't be a problem. Wink

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  • reinedecajunreinedecajun member
    Well last night at about 9:30 we got a facebook invite for hotdogs and swimming at her house saturday.  So I guess that was her reaching out, thing is saturday is slammed pack because were getting the kids ready for their trip, haircuts..shopping things like that. They are leaving first thing Sunday morning. So I told her we couldn't make it but she was more than welcome to come over saturday evening for swimming and hotdogs over here. She didn't even know the kids were leaving. I hope this is a good step forward and hopefully she'll come over Saturday so we can talk. We'll see....
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  • ashleynakaashleynaka member
    Oh man!  It seems she's been awaiting this day and has been saving these crazy sayings just to screw with you.  I would be livid!  I say call her out on fb, so all her little fb friends can know what a grandma she isn't!!  Good luck and try to enjoy Father's Day with your hubby and not worry about her.
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