BF is still in a lot of pain. He's been to the doctor three times now. I'm not really sure what they're doing, other than evaluating his limitations, writing prescriptions, and scheduling follow-ups.
They were saying it's a muscle tear. Today he went in for another follow up. He's been losing feeling in his right foot now, and the doctor noticed that his hips are now crooked, so they're sending him to physical therapy. I don't like that they haven't even looked for a diagnosis.
We got a big packet in the mail today with all the details of worker's comp, including choosing his own doctor, getting a second opinion, etc. So we'll be trying to figure that all out this weekend- finding another doctor and hopefully getting some answers.
The last time he talked to someone from work (I don't know if it was an HR person or if it was the nurse), they said he had to deal with their claims department from that point on, mentioned that the claims department would have to look into the case and make a decision on whether he could keep his job. That sent up red flags. He did contact a lawyer after that discussion, although we'd still prefer to avoid that route if we can. I'm an optimistic person, and I'd like to believe that the company will do the right thing, within the law, and we won't need to take legal action. But I'm not naive and I know that's still a big possibility.
I keep hoping he'll feel better soon and will be able to return to work and everything will be fine. He's so grumpy these days from being bored and in pain. He's missed nearly a full week of work now. Since they haven't really told him what's wrong with him, we have no idea what we can expect. He'll have two weeks of physical therapy before his next follow up appointment and then they'll determine if he can return to work.
Re: Worker's Comp- update
I agree with Hfrizzle. A second opinion with some diagnostics tests would be good. I would hope the company would not dismiss him so quickly after an injury.
Eleanor 9.30.13
i am , yet again, confused. wasn't he only there for a few days, and part-time?? most companies you have to be there for 90 days to get ANY kind of benefits, let alone be 'guaranteed' your job? it's not like he was there for years?
who is paying for your lawyer? your pet photography job?
i don't think he had a previous job? ha
are you LOOKING to sue? maybe get some fast money? this would solve a lot of your problems, and BF can go back to well, doing nothing. sounds fishier and fishier!
It only sounds fishy if you twist my words. We can't have the lifestyle we hope to have someday unless he is able to work. I grew up with a disabled father, and that is the last thing I want for my daughter. I want her father to be able to be there for her big moments. I want him to be able to sit in a chair long enough to attend her high school graduation. I want her to learn by example that we can get where we want in life through hard work. Nobody is looking for a payout here.
And I apologize if it comes across as attentionseeking by posting about this here. I posted the first thread because I had a few questions and was looking for input. I posted this thread because I wanted to update anyone who might be interested in finding out what was going on. That's all.
You didn't come across as attention seeking or whatever else it was that cousinvicki said you were doing. Don't worry about her!! I hope it all works out for y'all. I can just imagine the huge amount of stress it is putting on you during your pregnancy!!!
Thanks. He was told he'd be receiving short term disability, 2/3 of his weekly pay. Of course, now they're saying that they only agreed to give him 15 hours per week when he was hired, versus the 20 hours he was told (and scheduled for), and so they're going off of 2/3 of 15 hours. His contract doesn't say anything about minimum hours, so we're SOL there. We're going to have to make it work in the meantime, but I'm going to have to completely re-do our budget, since that makes a huge difference when things are as tight as they are. I know we'll find a way to manage.
I don't think this is very fair. I've been in a very similar situation, and sometimes it's necessary to lawyer up in order to get the medical care you need. With my situation, I had no choice. The WC insurance company denied me necessary medical attention and tried to settle for 5,000 with no future medical coverage, and if I hadn't lawyered up I would be about 200,000 in the hole. I didn't see a penny of that. It went straight towards paying my hospital and surgery bills.
The fact that he hasn't been given or scheduled for an MRI yet with a back injury is a HUGE red flag that something is already amiss. Plus, from a legal standpoint, a WC case is NOT a way to make fast money. It is a very long and drawn out process that takes years and, in my state, your payout is solely based on how much you were earning in the first place. So, if he was making an hourly rate, his WC would be based off that and it would be virtually impossible to get a huge settlement unless he was deemed permanently disabled, which isn't likely.
Mostly, with WC cases, patients are seeking for their medical bills to be covered not for a huge settlement which probably wouldn't happen with this case. Plus, when you're dealing with your SPINE why wouldn't they want to do everything in they're power to protect their health?
I'm sorry, but if you've never experienced a back injury with all of the joys that come along with it including excruciating pain, numbness, sciatica, unrelenting discomfort, and the inability to participate in normal, everyday activities such as lifting groceries into the car or even YOUR CHILD then you, CV, dont have a leg to stand on here. Back injuries are no joke and should not be taken lightly regardless of if he was hurt while working a fulltime or part time position.
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My understanding of worker's compensation is that it pays your medical expenses if the injury was on "clock time" but NOT that you 100% get to keep your job. If you can't do your job (and aren't expected to be able to return to it in a timely fashion), they don't have to continue your employment. That is where long term disability kicks in to pay you - not worker's comp.
But I could be wrong here.
I think you're right and it it all varies by state, but I'm pretty sure that, after a certain amount of time has passed, your position with the company is not guaranteed.
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