If I had the option to clone myself I think I'd do it. Now that they are both mobile I am absolutely at my wits end trying to keep these two entertained. I need your advice on how to add more entertainment into our day so I'm not constantly pulling them off of each other or chasing them at opposite ends of our house.
Currently we spend a lot of time playing in the house because it's hard to take them both outside by myself although we usually go for at least one walk a day. Inside we rotate between their billion toys and books, play with bubbles, play little games like peek-a-boo, bounce on a yoga ball, use the jump-a-roo, and hide under blankets together (a new favorite).
The real problem is that each of these things keeps them entertained for about 30 seconds and rarely at the same time. What is your go-to entertainment? I need more than 30 second intervals of them not accidentally hurting themselves or each other while trying to get into everything.
Re: Help! How do you entertain your LO?
Mom of 2 monkeys and 1 on the way!
Christian12/06, Liam 08/12, Monkey #3 10/10
Everyday she discovers something new in the house so, as long as its safe, I let her explore all around.
Wow. Just reading that makes me so tired and overwhelmed. Can they play alone? Even for a little bit? I do pretty much what you do but DS plays independently a lot of the time and even when he doesn't want to play alone I leave him for a few minutes because he needs to learn to entertain himself and I can't be on him all day. What about an extra walk just to break up the day a bit more? Sorry I'm not much help. I don't know how you do it with two!!
I make up shitt to do.
I'm serious.
Oh, we need grapes...grocery store, here we come! I need a nail file, let's go to Target! I cannot stand to be cooped up in the house the entire day. Other than that, we're at the park or on a walk.
I don't know how I'd do it with two, but, for my sanity, I would HAVE to figure something out. Is there anything in your area you can do like a GTG? Mommy & me yoga? Have you looked on Meetup? The Meetup group in my area has activities 2-3 times a week.
Inside, it's hopeless. I just let him do whatever; pots, pans, a magazine.
SCANDAL!
I totally agree. She gets tired of being with me and being held sometimes, so I load her pack n play with toys and she goes to town, or she'll sit at her piano, or her walker, or her bouncer. Also, never underestimate the power of Sesame Street. She'll watch maybe one episode a day and sit totally quiet for about an hour. Her and I both love not feeling like we constantly have to entertain each other.
This. I think independent play is really important (and just read a good article on it - I'll try to find the link). I let her do her own thing other than re-directing her away from unsafe stuff, or if she crawls over and wants to interact with me.
I'm not really one of those parents who plays with her kids. I believer in independent play. Sometimes organized chaos is good.