Thanks for thinking of us! He is hanging in there. I feel bad because we rented safe haven and I didn't even think that might set him off. We both ended up crying for a few hours that night. Since then he hasn't really talked about it. I made him a book from shutterfly and on the last page I wrote him a letter about how today is bittersweet. But his dad would e so proud of him and he will live on through what he teaches our children. I'm nervous for him to read it because I don't want to make him sad. Does your DH have a hard time on Mother's Day? We are seeing his grandfather while down there so that should be nice. Thanks for thinking of me!
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Thanks for thinking of us! He is hanging in there. I feel bad because we rented safe haven and I didn't even think that might set him off. We both ended up crying for a few hours that night. Since then he hasn't really talked about it. I made him a book from shutterfly and on the last page I wrote him a letter about how today is bittersweet. But his dad would e so proud of him and he will live on through what he teaches our children. I'm nervous for him to read it because I don't want to make him sad. Does your DH have a hard time on Mother's Day? We are seeing his grandfather while down there so that should be nice. Thanks for thinking of me!
That's really sweet. I'm sure he'll love it.
H does have a hard time on Mother's Day. It was a little easier this year because 1) we were celebrating me being a mother and 2) things were really hectic with my graduation and moving, so it helped keep his mind off of it. I know it's still hard for him though. It's one of those things where it never gets "easier" really, you just learn to tolerate it. I guess? I get sad about random things like my mom taking O shopping for clothes and how much MIL would have loved that. Obviously, the big things suck too, but the littler things I think we struggle with more often, if that makes sense.
Anyway, not to ramble. I just wanted to let you know he's in my thoughts. I hope he loves the book! Let us know how that goes! Have a fun trip!
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That's really sweet. I'm sure he'll love it.
H does have a hard time on Mother's Day. It was a little easier this year because 1) we were celebrating me being a mother and 2) things were really hectic with my graduation and moving, so it helped keep his mind off of it. I know it's still hard for him though. It's one of those things where it never gets "easier" really, you just learn to tolerate it. I guess? I get sad about random things like my mom taking O shopping for clothes and how much MIL would have loved that. Obviously, the big things suck too, but the littler things I think we struggle with more often, if that makes sense.
Anyway, not to ramble. I just wanted to let you know he's in my thoughts. I hope he loves the book! Let us know how that goes!
Have a fun trip!