Secondary IF

It's over

For good.

Even on progesterone and with no fluid, my lining shrunk again. My RE said even the best in the country have no answers to this. He told me to go home and enjoy my life. I knew the end was around the corner, but I never thought I'd actually get to the end of this road with no baby? Will I ever try again? Maybe. But right now, I need to accept that I will never have another baby. And I need to find a way to accept that.

Good luck to you all. But I need to leave the board. I hope you all have a happy ending.

Re: It's over

  • I am so sorry and I wish you luck! 
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  • This is not the update I had hoped to read from you. I'm just so sorry. It's totally unfair. I hope you can find peace with this terrible situation. I wish you the best. ::hugs::
    PCOS dx 2008 | BFP #1 2/26/2009 with Metformin
    Owen Matthew 11/1/2009 4lbs 10oz 16.5in
    Born 5 weeks early by C/S | Severe Pre-Eclampsia
    BFP #2 5/1/2011 | M/C @ 7 weeks | D&C 5/25/2011
    TTC #2 | HSG Clear | SA 2% Morph otherwise great
    3 failed Femara/TI cycles moving on to IUI
  • I am so sorry! Hugs! I will be praying for you. IF sucks. I wish I had a magic wand that could all give us babies. I really am so very sorry!
    Carly
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  • I am so very sorry. Sending you a big hug!




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  • I am so, so sorry to hear this.  I really wish things had gone differently.  I am sad to see you go, although I understand.  Thank you for your kind and supportive words over the past few months.

    Me: 42. DH: 46.

    1st Pregnancy: MC, 11/19/00.

    2nd Pregnancy: DS born 04/10/06.

    3rd Pregnancy: CP, 03/11.

    4th Pregnancy: MMC, D&C 11/30/11, Genetic testing revealed Trisomy 4.

    5th Pregnancy: Ectopic, 2 doses of Methotrexate unsuccessful, surgery 4/10/12, right tube removed.

    Tried Letrozole January 2013-July 2013 (including 2 IUIs), all BFN.  After 2 1/2 years of trying for child #2, decided to "give up" after July cycle, based on AMA.

    August 16, 2013:  BFP our first month of "not trying!"  Still in shock.  Beta #1 (14dpo): 183.  Beta #2 (17dpo):  611.  Ultrasound 8/30/13: baby measured 6 weeks, 1 day, heart rate of 118 bpm! 
    Ultrasound 9/13/13:  8 weeks, heart rate of 176!
    Baby is due 4/26/14

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  • I am so sorry. Wishing you peace as you move on to where ever life takes you and your family.

    We are also done for good and are now focusing on our family of three. I am in a good place but it took me a few months to get here.

    Hugs for you!

    Dx: PCOS and short luteal phase
    18 cycles (3 with our RE) - Metformin + Clomid + HCG booster did the trick!
    BFP #1 6/22/09 EDD: 3/2/10 DS born: 3/8/10

    TTC #2 since Dec 2011
    BFP #2 7/8/12 EDD: 3/18/12 M/C @ 9w1d: 8/16/12

  • Sending T&Ps your way. I'm so sorry you didn't get the ending you wanted. IF is so cruel. I hope you can find peace and thank you for all the support. (((hugs)))
    Me 38, DH 34 Missed M/C 10/08 at 10 weeks DD born 8/09, TTC#2 since Jan 2011 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • So sorry to read this update.  I hate to see anyone leave without the happy ending they are seeking.  I will send my thoughts and prayers that you can find peace with your life as it is.

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    DD conceived after 3 years of ttc.
    MFI - DH had varicocele repair and took Clomid to get DD b. 02/2010

    TTC #2 since 6/2010
    10/2012 DH diagnosed with Epilepsy
    A few failed IUIs summer 2012 and 2013. 
    DH taking clomid and waiting to see if he needs another vericocele repair. 
    Hoping for a 2015 baby or babies. 
    Wishing, hoping, waiting.


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