TTC after 35

How often do you BD around when you are ovulating?

Everyday?  Every other?  multiple times a day?

What's your theory?

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Re: How often do you BD around when you are ovulating?

  • Hubby's libido just isn't very high, so if we manage every other day we're doing pretty good. 


         

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  • imagegscoville:
    Hubby's libido just isn't very high, so if we manage every other day we're doing pretty good.nbsp;


    Oh man my hubby's is not either when it is in the time frame. We try for every other day. He keeps telling me he is not 20 anymore. Lol
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    Spotting,clot 2/15/13 all ok......2/21/13 no heartbeat 11 w 4 d missed miscarriage........2/22/13 DnC :(
    BFP # 2 10.10.13...........EDD 6.19.14



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  • Another one whose husband's libido is on the lower side here. Still, we manage to BD the 3 days leading up to and the day of O. By the 4th day I'm nearly raping him :-/
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  • imagegscoville:
    Hubby's libido just isn't very high, so if we manage every other day we're doing pretty good.nbsp;
    This is pretty much us, too. Once I'm a day away from my usual O day I aim for EOD until the OPKs go negative again and temp spikes.

    ETA: What the hell is up with all our husbands libidos? ::mobile winky::

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    imagegscoville:
    Hubby's libido just isn't very high, so if we manage every other day we're doing pretty good.nbsp;
    This is pretty much us, too. Once I'm a day away from my usual O day I aim for EOD until the OPKs go negative again and temp spikes. ETA: What the hell is up with all our husbands libidos? ::mobile winky::

    I know right?! We totally prove the stereotype, guys are their horniest at 19 and peter out by 40, and women just come into their sexual prime around 40. I could do it every night if hubby could keep up with me! Lol 


         

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    Married August 2012. Me: 41  DH: 42 
    Daughter from previous marriage: 20

    BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
    June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
    Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014

    TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014

    TTCAL BLOG

    All ALers welcome!

  • imageJunebug060609:
    imagegscoville:
    Hubby's libido just isn't very high, so if we manage every other day we're doing pretty good.nbsp;
    This is pretty much us, too. Once I'm a day away from my usual O day I aim for EOD until the OPKs go negative again and temp spikes.

    ETA: What the hell is up with all our husbands libidos? ::mobile winky::


    Glad my hubby is not the only one!!!
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    Me (40) DH (42).......Married 7/1/11......TTC 12/2013.......BFP #1 12/30/12........EDD 9/8/13
    Spotting,clot 2/15/13 all ok......2/21/13 no heartbeat 11 w 4 d missed miscarriage........2/22/13 DnC :(
    BFP # 2 10.10.13...........EDD 6.19.14



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  • MAtoNCMAtoNC member

    We BD'd every other day during my fertile window and until it was obvious I had ovulated (e.g., temp shift confirmed by FF, CM dried up etc).


    Married 4/12/08 DS born 11/17/2009 via c-section at 39 weeks. 11/12/2011 BFP #2!! m/c 7w5d. 2/28/2012 BFP #3 Beta #1-12dpo = 18; Beta #2-16dpo = 185; Beta #3-18dpo = 505. EDD 11/10/2012. Ectopic discovered at 5w4d. D&C followed by methotrexate.
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    ok- we have only been married a year...but we BD daily every day of the month except during AF. Sometimes 2x per day on the weekend or during my fertile window.... making up for lost time I guess :)

     Doctor said it is fine since DH has no sperm issues.... 

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  • We try every other day in the first two days of the fertility window, then, every day til my temp rises, cm dries up, to get as many swimmers in the pool.  Then, we rest til next time.  :) 
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  • My husband's low libido is an ongoing struggle for us. Consequently, we only bd during my fertile window. And when we're not TTC it's very infrequent, but that's another story. This cycle, we managed to bd everyday during my fertile window.

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  • This was partly why ivf was so great! I didn't have to harass him! I'm with you gals!
  • Every other day.  We haven't done any testing, but he's even older than I am, and my ob/gyn says that the little swimmers really need a day to recharge.  We start on day 11. If we end up skipping a day, I just move it to the next one, but we are done on day 18--I ovulate late, anyway.
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