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August 2011 Moms
Monsieur_et_Madame_Ha
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Life's not fair
Monsieur_et_Madame_Ha
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A friend of mine got a surprise BFP (she was on the pill but got pregnant anyways). After much debating, she and her H decided to not go through with the pregnancy. I won't go into details here, but while I understand and respect their decision, I cried my eyes out when I found out.
Meanwhile, DD2's favourite teacher from DC suffered a miscarriage. It was all I could do not to start crying when she told me 
I know everything happens for a reason but man, this really sucks.
Farewell, nesticle, you will be missed
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Re: Life's not fair
It's one of those things I think about all of the time. I have tons of friends and one of my sisters that are struggling with fertility issues. When I got KU this time I felt horrible telling all of them. I know that it's more important to provide love and a good quality of life for a child but I can't handle thinking about 3 of my friends who have chosen to not go through with pregnancies.
This is so sad but all we can do is be supportive of our loved ones and friends.
Couldn't agree more - I guess it hit especially close to home because my friend already has 2 LO's, so her situation reminds me of myself when I found out I was expecting #3. I look at him and just cannot imagine making that decision.
In happier news, my friend who has been TTC for almost 2 years now is now 9 weeks along