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Feeling like I'm alone in not having a bun in the oven or a squish in my arms. I know I'm not though, so please check in!

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  • We're not officially TTC yet, but I wish we were. I have baby fever hard core. DH still insists we wait a bit....but I haven't pushed the issue that hard. I keep telling him he's not a spring chicken (he's 42)... That may not be the best argument!

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    BFP: 7/30/13  EDD: 4/9/14 Born right on time on his due date! 8lb10oz, 21.5 in.


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  • Thanks for checking in, I needed it tonight.  Was having a hard time feeling left behind and seeing the KU check in isn't helping that.  GL when you do start TTC.

    AF is back in town.  Again.  Last shot before my the EDD of my last loss (Weds).  Since it's now been six months of trying since the loss (I'm 36) and a year without a viable pregnancy (I can't believe AF returned a year ago already!)...I made the call to my OB about fertility testing.  She ran a few labs on me (all normal so far, not all are in) and got us a referral to an RE.  Currently waiting on insurance approval before scheduling an apt with the RE.  It was a hard call to make, but I'm glad I did so.  For the first time in months I actually feel a glimmer of hope that DS might get a sibling...and I really needed that glimmer this week. 

    BFP#2 2.5.11 (EDD 10.15.11) DS born 9.28.11

    BFP#4 8.27.13 (EDD 5.6.14) DD born 4.23.14

     

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    Thanks for checking in, I needed it tonight.nbsp; Was having a hard time feeling left behind and seeing the KU check in isn't helping that.nbsp; GL when you do start TTC.AF is back in town.nbsp; Again.nbsp; Last shot before my the EDD of my last loss Weds.nbsp; Since it's now been six months of trying since the loss I'm 36 and a year without a viable pregnancy I can't believe AF returned a year ago already!...I made the call to my OB about fertility testing.nbsp; She ran a few labs on me all normal so far, not all are in and got us a referral to an RE.nbsp; Currently waiting on insurance approval before scheduling an apt with the RE.nbsp; It was a hard call to make, but I'm glad I did so.nbsp; For the first time in months I actually feel a glimmer of hope that DS might get a sibling...and I really needed that glimmer this week.nbsp;

    Hugs I hope you get some answers and DS is a big brother soon!
    We are shooting for trying in 2 months and I'm so nervous. I'm trying to lose this last bit of baby weight before I would get pg again. And lately my cycles are so wacky and I'm bleeding after we DTD. Bla I have an appt with my OB next Monday to see what's up. I hope it's no big deal but I get an answer.

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    BFP#2~12/15/11~EDD 8/25/12, Hannah born 8/22/12~ 7lbs 10oz & 21 in. long. :)

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    Well you know I'm here. ??

    Hugs love. I'm really interested in how the rest of your testing comes back, and am hopeful for your RE appointment! 

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  • I am right there with you - but you probably already knew that : ) I actually woke up to AF this morning - and I'm HAPPY about it b/c I had to wait for it to come before we could TTC again. So I guess we are officially back in TTC land.
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    BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11

    BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d

    BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13

     

    BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14 

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    We're almost TTC.  I've stopped taking BC and have begun to track O'ing with OPKs.  We will begin hard core after BIL's wedding at the end of July.  I'm getting antsy though because I am ready for another one.

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    I am right there with you but you probably already knew that :

    I actually woke up to AF this morning and I'm HAPPY about it b/c I had to wait for it to come before we could TTC again. So I guess we are officially back in TTC land.
    This is one of the rare occasions that I'm happy for her to show for someone. I'm glad you're back in business!

    Mork, I'll keep you posted on how things go [good chance it will be in TTCAL though].

    BFP#2 2.5.11 (EDD 10.15.11) DS born 9.28.11

    BFP#4 8.27.13 (EDD 5.6.14) DD born 4.23.14

     

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  • imageOatoa:
    We're almost TTC.  I've stopped taking BC and have begun to track O'ing with OPKs.  We will begin hard core after BIL's wedding at the end of July.  I'm getting antsy though because I am ready for another one.

    AHHH!!! How exciting!!! Big Smile

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    BFP #2 01/14/11. EDD 09/25/11. Missed m/c 02/18/11. D&C 02/24/11. }Dustin{
    TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
    BFP #3 08/18/13. EDD 04/30/14. Missed m/c 09/25/13. D&C 09/26/13. }Daylin{
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  • You are not alone! I am more than ready for another one, but DH is still not quite there yet. We are 5 months out from my loss in January. Hopefully sometime this summer we can start officially trying again! Good luck to everyone :-)

    BFP #1 4/22/10 MC 5/5/10 (6w4d) EDD 12/25/10
    BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
    BFP #3 5/10/11 Lucas Abelardo born 12/29/11 at 37w3d
    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

    BFP #5 8/22/13 Lucia Elizabeth born 4/17/14 at 38w
     
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  • Sorry I dropped the ball in taking over this check-in. DS was really sick, then AF showed up two days later and now I'm sick with whatever he had.  It's been crazy here lately.

    On the TTC side this was our first month officially TTC again.  AF showed up 2 days late and of course got my hopes up.  I was disappointed but I'm trying really hard to stay optimistic.  I forgot how stressful this whole process can be.

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    BFP#1 on 09/29/09 and EP discovered/Left Tube lost on 10/19/09 EDD 06/12/10
    BFP# 2 on 03/21/2010 EDD 11/30/10 Natural M/C on 3/27/10
    BFP# 3 on 02/14/2011 EDD 10/28/11 Missed M/C discovered 4/19/11 and D&C 4/21/11 On 5/6/11 we found out our Oct Angel was a beautiful little girl <3
    IVF#1=BFP#4 on 8/31/11 EDD 5/12/12 EP discovered and MTX shot given 9/14/ & 9/21 M/C on 10/9/11
    IVF#2 and Stims started 12/2 ER 12/16 ET 12/21 transferred two beautiful blastocysts. Please stick LO's! BFP 12/26
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  • Hugs to all of you ladies!

    I'm obviously not there, but I will check in with you.  Had my D&C for m/c #7 last Monday and I am hopeful that things will get back to normal soon.  I think we will try again, although we will wait a few reg. cycles.  I wanted to talk with my Dr. at my follow up in a few weeks about whether we should try again.  DH said he doesn't care what they say (and I kind of agree).  After all, if we would have listened to my other doctors after miscarriage #5 and #6 we wouldn't have the most amazing little boy in our lives right now.

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    bfp #1 - 12.11.07, edd 8.14.08, mm/c 1.21.08 (10w4d)
    bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
    bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
    bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
    bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
    bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
    one more try -> bfp #7 - 2.11, our miracle baby boy arrived 10.11
    ttc again -> bfp #8 - 5.3.13, edd 1.13.14, mm/c 5.30.13 (7w3d)
    bfp #9 - 9.23.13, our miracle baby girl arrived 5.29.14

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    I was thinking about you last week Junebug and hoping you'd get some good news soon.  Hope the RE appt goes well and they have some productive advice!! 

    I am also still bunless.  AF showed about 1 hr. ago - right on schedule.  I'm a little disappointed, but not as disappointed as I have been in the past.  I might be letting go of the whole notion of getting pg again.  Life is just starting to even out and maybe not having another kid is the best way to go...

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    imageJunebug060609:
    Thanks for checking in, I needed it tonight.nbsp; Was having a hard time feeling left behind and seeing the KU check in isn't helping that.nbsp; GL when you do start TTC.AF is back in town.nbsp; Again.nbsp; Last shot before my the EDD of my last loss Weds.nbsp; Since it's now been six months of trying since the loss I'm 36 and a year without a viable pregnancy I can't believe AF returned a year ago already!...I made the call to my OB about fertility testing.nbsp; She ran a few labs on me all normal so far, not all are in and got us a referral to an RE.nbsp; Currently waiting on insurance approval before scheduling an apt with the RE.nbsp; It was a hard call to make, but I'm glad I did so.nbsp; For the first time in months I actually feel a glimmer of hope that DS might get a sibling...and I really needed that glimmer this week.nbsp;
    Hugs I hope you get some answers and DS is a big brother soon! We are shooting for trying in 2 months and I'm so nervous. I'm trying to lose this last bit of baby weight before I would get pg again. And lately my cycles are so wacky and I'm bleeding after we DTD. Bla I have an appt with my OB next Monday to see what's up. I hope it's no big deal but I get an answer.

    imagecrystalknpp:

    Sorry I dropped the ball in taking over this check-in. DS was really sick, then AF showed up two days later and now I'm sick with whatever he had.  It's been crazy here lately.

    On the TTC side this was our first month officially TTC again.  AF showed up 2 days late and of course got my hopes up.  I was disappointed but I'm trying really hard to stay optimistic.  I forgot how stressful this whole process can be.

    OH MAN YOU TWO. 

     

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  • *waves hello*  Bunless woman, right here.  (Hugs) to all the ladies who need it, particularly you, Junebug!
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

  • I'm here! AF just left so on to cycle number 3. Good luck with your RE!
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    BFP #2 - d&c on 07.22.10 @11w1d
    BFP #3 - DS born on 06.22.11 @41w3d!
    BFP #4 - Due 04.24.13
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