My ex's fianc...

mboise730 · June 2013

One of my friends works in the L and D dept of the hospital I will deliver at. She sent me a text yesterday letting me know my ex's fianc now works in that dept. My ex and I left it on good terms, I'm married, he's about to be, we keep in touch here and there with mutual friends and such. Now I was thinking how weird it would be for my ex's fianc to be there during my labor. Odds are slim, I know. But would any one else be wierded out if your ex's partner was getting views of your vajay? Can I ask for a different nurse if in the off chance she is the one there? Or am I just being CrayCray?

yesthisiskim0401 · June 2013

I'd be super weirded out and would request a different nurse in the most polite way possible.

hendy02 · June 2013

how long ago did you date? was it serious? i dont think i'd care too much; in fact, i'd probably forget and then realize it after the baby was born, but my memory is kaput these days!

mboise730 · June 2013

We split 4 years ago, dated for 9 years.

Gwyneddlesliegrace · June 2013

yesthisiskim0401:
I'd be super weirded out and would request a different nurse in the most polite way possible.

This. Talk to your ob and get it in your birth plan.

trackgirlparis · June 2013

I would totally ask for a different nurse of that happens. Not weird at all.

mboise730 · June 2013

Thank you all! I was thinking that but didn't want to be over dramatic.

losersaidwhat · June 2013

It's not so weird and could actually be a conflict of interest for her to be involved in the birth of your baby. I think they'd totally understand that request.