Pregnant after a Loss

I'm Done

Went to the hospital tonight because of bleeding. I miscarried at 8 wks 2 days. They couldn't find the heartbeat. 

I told DH that I was done. We have lost 3 babies and only planned on having 3. I figure 3 strikes and you are out. I hope you ladies go on to have beautiful babies.  

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss!  Praying for you and your husband.  I think I would feel done after 3 losses too, but give yourself time- no need to make any decisions one way or the other while you are in the midst of this.  (((Hugs)))
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  • Thank you ladies. 
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  • I am so sry. Praying for you.
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  • So sorry for your loss. Multiple m/cs can really take it out of you! Not sure if you have already talked to your doc about RPL testing. I had 3 losses and had the RPL tests which they found nothing but it helped me know there wasn't a reason just bad luck the first 3 times! Some people have done the testing and find very simple explanations. I am mobile so sorry if any of this is in you signature.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. Lots of ((hugs)) headed your way.
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  • I'm so very sorry. I'm thinking of you and praying for you.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I wouldn't make any decisions right now. I would just grieve. Sending you a hug.




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  • I'm so sorry for your loss :(
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses. [[hugs]]
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  • I am so sorry for your losss, and for all the feelings that are coming along with it. I hope that you are able to hold off on a firm decision as to whether or not you will try again until you have properly grived this baby. I truly wish you and your husband can find peace with your decision.
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    I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending many thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

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  • I am so sorry for your loss! Hugs
    My hubby and I have been together since 2008. Married 5 years in Dec. DX with PCOS and annovulatory hypothalamus. TTC for baby #2 for 10 months BFP on May 29th 2015

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. (((hugs)))

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  • I'm so sorry for your losses. I don't know if you can see my siggy but I had 3 m/C's as well. Take all the time you need. Page me anytime!
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  • So incredibly sorry for your loss. I am praying that you will find healing and some peace in all of this.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. 
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  • Huge hugs!  I hope you can grieve and find some peace.  Nothing about this painful journey is fair. 
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    I'm so sorry for your losses ((HUGS))
    BFP #1 (DS, 10/98), BFP #2 (DD, 10/09)
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    BFP #4 5/29 EDD 2/9 - please be our rainbow
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses! I wish you peace soon. And I think I would feel the same after 3 losses but on a positive my cousin had 3 losses in a row and 4th is a precious baby girl. Big hugs!!!
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  • I'm so sorry. (((hugs))) 


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  • I am so sorry! Huge hugs!!
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  • I'm so very sorry:(

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. 
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    began TTCAL 8/12
    BFP#2 10/28/12 (EDD 7/6/13)- cp at 5 weeks 11/5/12
    BFP#3 12/4/12 (EDD 8/12/13)- cp at 5 weeks 12/14/12
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. :hugs:
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  • I'm so sorry to hear this

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    DH SA = normal
    6/12 Femara (2 rounds)no response
    8/12 1st round Gonal F and 2 follies = BFN
    9/12 2nd round injects and 3 follies = BFP!
    10/15 11dpo beta#1 = 162 10/17 beta #2 = 471 1st U/S: Quads!!!
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  • I'm very sorry for your loss, many TPs to you and DH
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  • I'm so so sorry for your losses. *hugs* Just take it easy and take care of yourself. 


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  • I am so very sorry to hear this--you are in my thoughts. Big hugs to you...
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. 
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  • I am so very sorry.  It completely sucks that someone should have to go through this once, let alone three times.  ((Hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending lots of healing thoughts, love, and prayers
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  • Aw I'm soo sorry.
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  • pkarenpkaren member
    I'm so sorry. Big HUGS!!
    BFP #1: 12/26/11, EDD 09/05/12; m/c discovered: 02/22/12 @ 12w u/s,
    D&C: 03/08/12 Waited for AF for 146 long days!
    Hysteroscopy/D&C on July 10th to fix blocked cervix (DX: Cervical Stenosis)
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    I'm so sorry to hear this.  Praying for you and DH.  {{{hugs}}}

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