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havent posted in awhile

MinnesotaMomma91MinnesotaMomma91 member
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I guess because i dont really feel like a single mom because my boyfriend and i will be raising ds together.

Just had a random single mom thought though. I havent talked to ds biological dad since the end of february. Sometimes i worry my ds will think i didnt try hard enough to get his bio dad inolved.

Has anyone else felt like this? What did you do about it? Is it worth trying to open the lines of communication one last time for ds? Im just really confusedand torn
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  • babymama619babymama619 member
    I think if that cones up for me I'm just going to tell LO that I have BD all the time and space he needed to make the decision to be involved. But in the end I can't make someone do anything they don't want to. Eventually LO will see this is true.

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  • SheenafontenotSheenafontenot member
    I made a final attempt because I felt the same as you. It went nowhere. If you've left the option open for him to be involved, and he isn't, there isn't much else you can do.
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  • MinnesotaMomma91MinnesotaMomma91 member
    I guess thats true. I guess all i can do is cross that bridge when i get there
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  • Runaway22Runaway22 member

    If the door is open to BD, and he knows it, then that's all you can do. If you try and push it, you'll probably either go nowhere or make him dig his heels in further. Either way, it would be a wasted effort. 

    I know how you feel to an extent, though. At least in your case, your DS will have a positive male figure, and that's great. DNA does not a father make.  

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  • MinnesotaMomma91MinnesotaMomma91 member
    imageRunaway22:
    If the door is open to BD, and he knows it, then that's all you can do. If you try and push it, you'll probably either go nowhere or make him dig his heels in further. Either way, it would be a wasted effort.nbsp;I know how you feel to an extent, though. At least in your case, your DS will have a positive male figure, and that's great. DNA does not a father make. nbsp;


    Your right. My son has a dad they dont have to share dna for ds to have a dad
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  • inthelostinthelost member
    imageRunaway22:

    If the door is open to BD, and he knows it, then that's all you can do. If you try and push it, you'll probably either go nowhere or make him dig his heels in further. Either way, it would be a wasted effort. 

    I know how you feel to an extent, though. At least in your case, your DS will have a positive male figure, and that's great. DNA does not a father make.  

    this. all you can do is let him know the door is open if he chooses to be involved.

    Liliana Seraphina born 9/5/2103


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  • MomToNeenersMomToNeeners member

    imageLAMuehlen:
    imageRunaway22:
    If the door is open to BD, and he knows it, then that's all you can do. If you try and push it, you'll probably either go nowhere or make him dig his heels in further. Either way, it would be a wasted effort.nbsp;I know how you feel to an extent, though. At least in your case, your DS will have a positive male figure, and that's great. DNA does not a father make. nbsp;
    Your right. My son has a dad they dont have to share dna for ds to have a dad

    I agree with what you both said here. My daughter has 2 god father's and she calls both Dada and I love that because they are both very involved with her. 

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