July 2012 Moms

Major vent!

Ugh! I have been staying with my parents since Monday night because of the whole bead drama and I am losing my ever loving mind!

They are leaving for a week starting tomorrow and I was originally supposed to come up tomorrow but Cortlandt's ENT is here and there was no way I was driving back home just to come back in 5 days to house sit for them!

I love my dad dearly but my mom is psychotic to put it nicely and my brother who is 12 is a piece of work! He has called me a *** and cussed at me non stop with nothing being said and is just a spoiled little ***! He sits and plays Xbox all day and refuses to let Cortlandt sleep in his room in his pack and play because he wants to play his games all night and its allowed!

My mother accused me if making Camden's ear infection up even though she has been saying for the past 3 days he has been messing with his ears, he has had a fever of 102 for 2 days and is refusing to drink anything because it hurts to suck! I have cleaned their house from top to bottom and kept my jack wagon of a brother while they are working because they own a hotel and restaurant combo and I know they need to prepare to leave for a week!

The best is when they tell me I am mean to Cortlandt because he gets spanked when he refuses to listen or tells me no and it's after I count to 3! He very rarely gets spanked because he will come running or apologize at 2 because he knows I carry out what I say he will get unlike my parents who have the 12 year old who cusses at them and tells them to shut up all the time! We were raised completely different and I moved out at 16 and was working 2 jobs and supporting myself and this kid will be with them at 45 still playing Xbox!

No point to this except to vent because I am over it and have no one else to talk to! If you made it this far you deserve a drink!

Re: Major vent!

  • Thanks guys I'm just over it! I always say I have a 3 day limit with my mom and I figured this would be hard but with everything else I'm just drained! Yes there are definitely power struggles and the sad part is the 12 year old controls them!
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  • I'm sorry you have to out up with with family craziness but I can totally relate. I moved in with my mom and grandmother while DH was deployed (6 mo pregnant- til DS was 3 mo). the extra help was awesome but I got so much unneeded opinions and advice. I was so ready to go. Dhs family is similar with the younger sibling babied and playing video games all day long. I don't get it. I hope you get to go home and get back to normal soon!!
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