Success after IF

So, it's over...right?

Today is 1 week after my FET (7dp5dt) and tonight (7.5 days) I am still getting a BFN.  My beta isn't scheduled until next Wednesday.  At this point, I'd just like to get it over with if it's a true BFN and save the drugs and get started with the next cycle.  Should I call them tomorrow?  Is it really possible I could still get a BFP?

 

I keep wondering if the other two embryos will work... the one from this cycle was an expanding 5 day blastocyst from a fresh cycle right before I turned 28 (4.5 years ago) due to MFI.  It seems like it should have worked.  So bummed.  Also probably stressed since my ILs are visiting right now! 



Me – 33 (no diagnosis), DH – 41 (MFI)

IVF #1/ICSI 2008 – 22 ER, 21 F, Day 3 transfer (8A and 8B) - BFP, 3 Frosties

Surprise BFP 2010

Surprise BFP 2011

Shipped frosties from TX to VA in 2012

FET #1 May 2013, single blast – BFN

FET #2 August 2013 2 blasts – BFN

IVF #2/ICSI/AH Jan 2014 – 8 ER, 7M, 6 F Day 3 transfer (grade 2 & 3), no frosties - BFP!



Re: So, it's over...right?

  • TJ1979TJ1979 member
    I've never done FET either, and I've never been good at working out the math to how many dpo that works out to. But I thought FETs were often slower starters. And remember, it's never over till it's over.
    TTC with PCOS since November 2009
    IUI#1 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP, m/c
    IUI#2 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 5-9) = BFN
    IUI#3 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP!
    beta #1 11/23 = 270, P4 = 75
    beta #2 11/28 = 2055
    Our daughter E was born 7/29/2012!
    Surprise, our 2nd daughter P was born 5/22/14!
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  • Thanks...but this morning it is still a BFN :( I know I am beyond blessed with my 3 girls, but we've been saving those embryos since 2008 and I feel discouraged and also sad that one of them will never be a baby I can hold.  Fortunately, I have a great friend who is an OBGYN and she ordered a beta for me this afternoon after work.  I guess I can call the RE after I get the number and go from there.  


    Me – 33 (no diagnosis), DH – 41 (MFI)

    IVF #1/ICSI 2008 – 22 ER, 21 F, Day 3 transfer (8A and 8B) - BFP, 3 Frosties

    Surprise BFP 2010

    Surprise BFP 2011

    Shipped frosties from TX to VA in 2012

    FET #1 May 2013, single blast – BFN

    FET #2 August 2013 2 blasts – BFN

    IVF #2/ICSI/AH Jan 2014 – 8 ER, 7M, 6 F Day 3 transfer (grade 2 & 3), no frosties - BFP!



  • imagejensahokie:
    Thanks...but this morning it is still a BFN :( I know I am beyond blessed with my 3 girls, but we've been saving those embryos since 2008 and I feel discouraged and also sad that one of them will never be a baby I can hold.  Fortunately, I have a great friend who is an OBGYN and she ordered a beta for me this afternoon after work.  I guess I can call the RE after I get the number and go from there.  

    So sorry.  I'm glad you'll get your definite answer today.

    I know I'll feel the same way if our FET doesn't turn into a pregnancy.  You've had a hope and a dream for five years now and it's sad to see  that go away.  I do think, however, that you still have a good chance with your other ones.

    Kelly, Mom to Christopher Shannon 9.27.06, Catherine Quinn 2.24.09, Trey Barton lost on 12.28.09, Therese Barton lost on 6.10.10, Joseph Sullivan 7.23.11, and our latest, Victoria Maren 11.15.12

    Secondary infertility success with IVF, then two losses, one at 14 weeks and one at 10 weeks, then success with IUI and then just pure, crazy luck.  Expecting our fifth in May as the result of a FET.

    This Cluttered Life

  • I'm so sorry you're going through this. Hoping you just have a slow starter. 

    TTC #1 since 8/09, Dx MFI 4/10
    IUI #1: 6/10 = Cancelled, IUI #2: 7/10 = Cancelled, IVF #1: 9/10 = BFP
    Baby girl arrived - 6/14/11

    TTC #2
    IVF #2 - Oct/Nov 2012: 11/5 - eSET - 7 Frosties - BFP
    Baby girl arrived - 7/17/13 


    TTC #3
    FET #1 6/21/18



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