I may totally be jumping the gun here--but I have this "gut" feeling that DS1 is dyslexic. He has speech apraxia and sensory issues---and I'm currently trying to work with his school therapists for a stronger DX because I truly feel he's dyspraxic. But his OT doesn't think so--just is calling him clumsy at this point. I truly think there's more to it.
So what's making me think this is that when he writes his name--which he has tons of trouble with--- he was writing a few letters completely backwards---and then he went to actually writing them in different orders--and now he's actually writing his name completely backwards. So he "may" have the write letters written the correct way 60% of the time--but actually writes them in reverse order (like standing in a mirror).
I'm just curious what your early symptoms were for dyslexia and how it was diagnosed. Neurologist??? I don't want to miss something like that--and not sure where to go next.
Re: What were LO's symptoms for dyslexia?
This is something I worry about, too, especially as DD1 starts reading her reversals are becoming more obvious. She really commonly mixes up her b's and d's in sounding out words, and the other day read "I love you a ton" as "I love you a not." It's nice to hear that it's not necessarily something to worry about at this age.
She used to do the mirror writing, but two years of preschool have really helped with that. She still makes backwards S's sometimes, but clearly the practice has sunk in and made a big difference.
DD1, 1/5/2008 ~~~ DD2, 3/17/2010
I have been using this chart as a guide for whether he is still on track with those sounds, b/c DH was in speech as a kid (neither he nor his mother remember why though). https://www.speech-therapy-information-and-resources.com/speech-sound-development-chart.html So I think he is still on track for forming those sounds. We have been working on them as he sounds out words. His L is still very "round" (if that description makes any sense), but he's getting there. "Th" and "V" are typically just replaced by "D" and "F". When he gets to words with "Th," he doesn't know what to do. But, we're still in the early stages. I don't push him much b/c he gets frustrated easily and he'll be getting it plenty in Kindergarten. He wants to read, but would rather memorize words and guess at the rest by looking at the first and last letters.
I was just struck by your comment about not recognizing short vowel sounds, b/c he never ever remembers the short vowel sounds, and doesn't use them at all when sounding out words.
Gut feeling told us that our bright kid who could memorize movie dialogue but couldn't recognize the entire alphabet until near the end of grade two was dyslexic. We "knew" before then. As dh says, takes one to know one. DH is, his granddad is, and two uncles. T might be, but she also has selective mutism and can't be tested accurately. They've given her a different label, but she's slightly reading delayed. E, yeah, no issues there.
Signs? I took the list from dyslexia.com (the Davis list) and this is what we noticed. Bolded we especially noticed.
General
Vision, Reading, and Spelling
Hearing and Speech
Writing and Motor Skills
Math and Time Management
Memory and Cognition
Behavior, Health, Development and Personality