October 2011 Moms

My Entire Department Laid Off Today...Except Me

I left the department on a full time basis years ago and have since really diversified in the types of things I handle at work. This has made me more tired, but also more valuable. I handle several different things. The rest of my department only works in one area. All 6 of them were laid off today. We are a pretty close group and it sucks, but it really needed to happen to pave the way for some other things my company is trying to take on. 

I had to leave early and didn't get a chance to speak to anyone. Usually I wouldn't hesitate to give them a call at home tonight (not unusual at all in this group) but since I was the only one spared I feel a little weird about it. To make matters worse I have a doctor's appointment and won't be in tomorrow at all. 

Do you think I should reach out and say how sorry I am or hold off for a few days? 

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Re: My Entire Department Laid Off Today...Except Me

  • Oh gosh, this is such an awkward situation..but I am glad your job was spared.

    I used to work at a Starbucks regional office, and a similar situation happened to me. I was pretty tight with my co-workers; many of us worked together for over 6 years.  I reached out to all of them and even planned a get together.  No one acted weird toward me, they knew it wasn't my fault and were very appropriate.

    I would reach out to those who you think would respond well.  You might get an ear full (about the situation) but I am sure they would appreciate the kindness.  

      

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  • I don't know what I would do but I'm also glad your job was spared!
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  • I'm glad you were able to keep your job at least.  I would let the dust settle before reaching out.  It may feel like a little salt in the wound, even if it is by no means your fault. KWIM?


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    Sorry to hear about your department but glad to hear you weren't part of the 6.  Definitely reach out.  Did they have any idea it was coming?

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  • I'm glad you still have your job, but so sorry you lost all your co-workers!  My company actually had a lay-off yesterday too.  It makes such a creepy atmosphere at work.  I'm not sure how I would handle reaching out. I think within the next few days would feel more comfortable calling them up. Good luck!

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  • If it were me, I wouldn't call or reach out. I would feel really weird doing it and some people may think you are rubing it in your face. Plus, I'm sure some people may not be too happy that you were spared and they were not.

    Thankfully, you were spared, though !!!



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  • What a horrible situation, but thank God you diversified yourself.  I would reach out.  Could you all meet up for happy hour or something?
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  • I'm so glad you were spared but I understand that relief is tainted by your coworkers' layoffs.

    I would give it a day or two and check in with people individually. When I was laid off in the past, I hated it when people around me acted like nothing happened. A quick note or phone call to say that this svcks will probably be appreciated. Just keep the conversation on them, try to keep your status out of it, even though they know you're staying.

  • Thanks for the advice everyone. I went ahead and called the two women I'm closest too and they were both appreciative. I have no idea what the future holds, but I appreciate the support on here. 
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