TTC after 35

Newbie Intro

Hi there! Just turned 41...starting our first IVF cycle this week, and I'm nervous.  Have never had successful PG,  fighting partially blocked tubes, low S count/poor motility...and a pituitary tumor (now under control), we decided its now or never. So what's $30k in the long run, right? 

 

We are doing Attain...which means 4 IVF tries (2 fresh, 2 FET)...I'd like to score the first time out ;)

Looking for support, ideas and to hear about others' journeys...and hoping for inspiration, too ;) 

Re: Newbie Intro

  • QOTRQOTR member
    Welcome and good luck to you!
    Me-41, Hubby-40.
    1st BFP-8/17/12!  Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US.  D&C.
    2nd BFP-2/13/13!  Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
    3rd BFP-5/22/13!  By early June, progesterone plummeting.  Another loss.
    August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
    Dear Son born 5/28/14
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  • Hi and welcome,

    I just finished my first egg retrieval for IVF and had my three eggs frozen. Now, I am in the middle of preparing for my FET, which should be in the 10th week of June, two weeks......  I remember it was a bit overwhelming at the beginning, but you will get the hang of it.  It is just getting over the initial poking of yourself, unless you are going to have your partner do that.  And, trying to keep yourself neutral from stress due to thinking too much about your follicles growing, how many there are and when they are retrieved....ugh, the agony of worry, if they are going to make it.....my three eggs were slow growing, so we don't have too much confidence that anything will stick, but I leave that with God and his plan to see what he wants for me.  So, Fx'ed all goes well.  He is transferring all three of them, so you can tell that the doctor doesn't think they will stick or go too far either, but I am just happy to have all my babies back with me and we can go through this process together.....

     Glad to hear that your tumor is under control and not giving you any problems, so you can move forward with IVF.....yeah, it can be a bit of moola but it is worth it, for sure!  Smart that you got a package deal.

    I hope that you will find this board supportive, knowledgeable and fun.....we are all going through this fun stuff called IF and trying to make the most of it, together......  

    Hope this first cycle is yours and you can just have some repeat performances for a couple of more, siblings to complete for family.....

    Best of luck and keep us posted on how it goes.  What medicine protocol do they have you on and for how long before retrieval and transfer? 

    Take care.

    Lilypie Trying to Conceive 15 to 80 day cycle tickers
  • I hope you have a happy successful journey!  Welcome, I am not doing ART so I cannot help with information about that just want to say hello and hope all goes wonderful to you!
  • jbellejbelle member
    Welcome and best of luck!

    AMA & SAIF. TTC #1 since Oct. 2010. DX: Unexplained. BFP on break after 32 months trying and 2 med cycles. Baby girl born at 40w0d!

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    jbelle

  • Welcome and good luck to you!

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • Welcome and good luck!

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  • Welcome! I hope your stay is short but sweet.
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  • Thanks so much for the warm welcomes. As far as my upcoming cycle.

     Wed (6/5) is suppression check w US and lining baseline check. 

    Saturday we start with Lupron, then add in Gonal & Menopur. Not sure when the HCG shot is...but the probable retrieval on 6/21 and 3 day transfer on 6/24.

     Right now, I'm most worried about the suppression check...I've been bleeding and cramping with the BCP, but the nurse says that okay (just freaks me out).

    Looking forward to following this board! 

  • Good luck to you!  I'm 37, have unexplained IF and  never been pregnant.  It's been a tough road for us 3, iuis and 2 IVFs thus far, TWW right now on 3rd IVF, first time with frozen embies.  One of my friends had twins last year with IVF at 42 on her first frozen embie cycle! 
  • Best of luck to you and your FET!  And I hope to be like your friend...DH is not so secretly praying for twins :P
  • ksgsmuksgsmu member
    Welcome!!!!
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    Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012
    Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR,  DH: normal

     IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
    - poor responder
    ***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
    IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms
    FET 5/20- BFP
    1st Beta- 641
    2nd beta- 2166
    Sono- TWINS!!!!
    Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks.  Healthy and no NICU!  So blessed!



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