So my fiance is always on these websites and told me about the community forums..so since I can't sleep I figured I would take a look. And found this hopefully I can get some helpful answers.
So this is our first child. She is 21 weeks pregnant. And I feel horrible. The first couple of months of being pregnant my fiance wanted NOTHING to do with any sexual activity. Even shower together. I know she became real uncomfortable and insecure with the changes and our communication is extremely well in our relationship. We do talk about everything. So I did comfort her and respect her feelings. About a month ago she got her sex drive plus a desire like a teenage boy going through puberty. And now I am the one with no sex drive.
We have talked about it, I feel horrible. Its not a fear of hurting the baby..I'm not unattractive to her at all. I am just not in the mood. I know its starting to upset her.. I try but she's so understandable. Our relationship is great. I just don't understand.
Anyone else feel this way? Had the same experience? Any advice on how to help this pass over?
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