WTF BM - I am sure everyone is sick of hearing about my story but I need to vent again, I am sorry. BM again did not call at her time 6:00 PM. Instead she called at 7:15, normally after DH doesn't answer, she doesn't try back. This times she calls like 6-7 times. We were trying to get the kids a baths, in pj's, brush teeth and to bed. We have the time at 6:00 so it does not interupt what is going on in our life. Why is it so hard to call when you set up that time and if it doesn't work out, just give DH a call before hand and let him know and he will gladly accommodate. But no, BM continues to call or not call when she wants. And wants supervised visits.
WTF BM--- How can you POSSIBLY accuse DH of not co parenting? OHHHH I know...because he was at work and didn't respond within 2 seconds of your email/text.
WTF lurkers? Bother to read the entire history before you jump my @ss about over-reacting. Trust me, I don't. Dink is a douchecanoe and if I posted half the sh!t he pulls on here, I'd be posting daily. TYVM for your uninformed opinions.
I got all up in the a$$ when I saw that too, but luckily someone else took care of it. I was ready to "defend your honor" LOL!
and either you want to see your kids or you don't!! Quit playing with their emotions!!! Do you not understand that they are almost to the point that they don't even care anymore! and you want to blame everyone for making you look like a bad mom? That's all YOU!!
WTF people looking at our house?! You can see it's on an effing slope! Stop coming by and then saying the house is great but the lot is too steep! ANDALSO, this is a hilly part of town. No one lives here for the nice flat backyards! We live here for the schools.
WTF BM and DH! I spend more quality time with SS then either of you do combined. I love that he wants to spend time with me, but I cannot entertain him every second of the weekend simply because he is craving attention. I work over 40 hours a week, have a 1 year old and am practically a single mom during the school year and I still make time for SS. All I want is 5 minutes to myself while the baby sleeps.
BM, you don't even work and all your kids are in school during the day. You have plenty of time to yourself while they are gone. Your house is a disaster so you obviously don't spend your day cleaning. You can't tell SS that you will spend more time with him after you are done having your 'me time.' Your children are still young so stop saying now that they are older you deserve time to yourself. He is 10! You have time to do it. You are choosing not to. It has been over 3 years since you did anything with just your son. If you can't find time for SS now, you never will.
DH, I get that you are super busy with work and all of your work projects, but I'm tired of making excuses for you. SS is your child and one day will realize you are NOT making him a priority. You have missed some of his baseball games because you were too tired from your busy life to attend.
I get that you were both teenagers when you had him, and feel like you grew up too fast. But both of you chose to have a child, and now I feel over burdened by the fact that I can't let this poor kid down because his parents won't step up. He's going to be a teenager one day soon and won't give you the time of day. Can't you just try to appreciate that he is asking for your time now?
"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." ~ Lao Tzu
WTF lurkers? nbsp;Bother to read the entire history before you jump my ss about overreacting. nbsp;Trust me, I don't. nbsp;Dink is a douchecanoe and if I posted half the sh!t he pulls on here, I'd be posting daily. nbsp;TYVM for your uninformed opinions.nbsp;
Wendi, I'm still brand new and I was up in arms for you. You are far more generous then dink deserves.
"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." ~ Lao Tzu
Why did you both decide to be difficult about summer on the same exact day?
BD- you suck for never letting DD do anything she wants on your time and claiming she can't because you already have plans to let your mom watch her that week. It's one freaking weekend out of the month you get her and I gave several options so you didn't loose time including extending your month. And why is your mom even watching her on the weekend??? That's usually the only time you actually have her during your month since she bounces around between your mom, your BD, SM's mom, ect. Had I known about the date in APRIL I could have requested that weekend and there would have been nothing you could have done, but I didn't know the camp dates then. Actually, put your child first for once. I feel like just requesting a weekend out of your month from here on out just to spite you. Now all the other kids get to go to church camp and DD doesn't.
BM- DH already went over this with you once. SD is aware that we are getting them in June for the month, not July. DH specifically told her the weekend she got out of school (this coming weekend). Stop texting saying SD thought July and wants to come in July. We know she doesn't want to come in July when DD isn't here anyway. YOU are just making up crap after you agreed to do June. DD and SD actually like being home at the same time. This has been discussed multiple times with the girls individually. We will also still have SKs on the weekends in July when DD is not here. We are already letting you pick her up to go to graduation for a friend on Sunday and return her afterward. We actually work around what SD wants to do.
WTF BM--- How can you POSSIBLY accuse DH of not co parenting? OHHHH I know...because he was at work and didn't respond within 2 seconds of your email/text.
Ugh. I love those moments. If DH doesn't respond to BM in less than five minutes, she'll text me the same thing. Uh, he can't have his phone at work. You know his schedule by now. It's been the same for forever. I will not speak for him about anything major, so don't even bother.
And of course, she will literally take DAYS to reply to DH. Yet DH is the bad parent. Gotta love it.
Oh hell... at least you GET a response LOL. DH gets NOTHING. Not ONE thing. It was about her taking kid to dr. and she thought she had wrong insurance info(she didn't) but when he addressed her regarding the accusation of HIM not coparenting and asked HER to coparent and tell him what the kid was being seen for...yeah NOTHING. STILL ...and it's been several days now.
I don't know what world these women live in, but GEEZE LOUISE they are something.
WTF lurkers? nbsp;Bother to read the entire history before you jump my ss about overreacting. nbsp;Trust me, I don't. nbsp;Dink is a douchecanoe and if I posted half the sh!t he pulls on here, I'd be posting daily. nbsp;TYVM for your uninformed opinions.nbsp;
I just saw that. This is the biggest W.T.F. seriously lurkers. Sit down and be quiet on this one.
WTF BM--- How can you POSSIBLY accuse DH of not co parenting? OHHHH I know...because he was at work and didn't respond within 2 seconds of your email/text.
Ugh. I love those moments. If DH doesn't respond to BM in less than five minutes, she'll text me the same thing. Uh, he can't have his phone at work. You know his schedule by now. It's been the same for forever. I will not speak for him about anything major, so don't even bother.
And of course, she will literally take DAYS to reply to DH. Yet DH is the bad parent. Gotta love it.
I can most definitely relate to this! But BM only calls like this when she wants to change something or demand something I should say She will call and leave literally 20 vm's in one day each one making her sound more idiotic and just wanting to fight. .. and then cancel her weekend anyways! so exhausting.
WTF lawyer - call me!!! I'm dying to know what happened at court this morning! (I know it will take a while to hear anything but I'm soooo impatient! I pretty much just want to know if BD even showed....)
WTF hand - what's your deal? I've gone to the hand specialist 4 times now and each time she gives me a different variation of steroids, shots, oral, cream ointment. Now I'm waiting on the rheumatologist to call to schedule and appointment. One finger joint is extremely painful, swells up easily, and is stiff a lot of the time and the hand specialist is stumped. I just want someone to figure it out so I don't constantly hurt...
WTF lurkers? nbsp;Bother to read the entire history before you jump my ss about overreacting. nbsp;Trust me, I don't. nbsp;Dink is a douchecanoe and if I posted half the sh!t he pulls on here, I'd be posting daily. nbsp;TYVM for your uninformed opinions.nbsp;
Wendi, I'm still brand new and I was up in arms for you. You are far more generous then dink deserves.
agreed, I don't get to come around often but I definitely know what the deal is with Dink, I read that lurker response and was all WTF you're obviously new!
WTF lurkers? Bother to read the entire history before you jump my @ss about over-reacting. Trust me, I don't. Dink is a douchecanoe and if I posted half the sh!t he pulls on here, I'd be posting daily. TYVM for your uninformed opinions.
I got all up in the a$$ when I saw that too, but luckily someone else took care of it. I was ready to "defend your honor" LOL!
Sorry, I know I jumped all over one of those chicks. I am not even going to bother responding to the other ignorant lurker. I feel like if you're lurking, that means you have nothing valuable or informative to add. So keep quiet and just lurk.
WTF BM? K is 7, she does not need a consultation to see if she needs braces yet. Are. You. KIDDING me?! And how about this, when you are willing to pay your half of orthodontia, we'll talk. Until then, shut up and keep living with your mother, wasting your money on tattoos and drinking. And quit complaining about how much my husband and I pay for my Crossfit each month and how we should be paying you more and how "unfair" the system is. We both work to afford our rent/car payments/groceries/utilities and other expenses. If we choose to spend $180 a month on my Crossfit, that's our choice. Shut up and and actually work more hours if you want more money. It's totally ok to actually earn money and not just have it handed to you.
WTF Mom? Quit trying to make me feel guilty about you not seeing the kids as often as you'd like. You have a car and a driver's license, be pro active and come see them. Don't put it on me to drive them to you, I already have an overflowing load of PTA/school/family/work stuff.
WTF PJ? Stopping with all the excessive pooping. We finally have your weight under control and now you've decided to literally crap all that away? Oh, and if you sleep for more than 3 hours, that would be great.
WTF.... is it really just Wednesday?
So our BM2 (SD7's mom) has a boyfriend for the first time since her and H split up! Now all of the sudden she wants us to take SD every weekend. I love my SD, but I love my weekends when my DD goes to her Dad's house and I don't have to do kid stuff. I know it is totally selfish of me, maybe this is more of a flame free post? Anyway, so I told my H that he NEEDS to get a new custody agreement, and then get CS modified, as it is currently based on him only having SD 7% of the time.
WTF BM--- How can you POSSIBLY accuse DH of not co parenting? OHHHH I know...because he was at work and didn't respond within 2 seconds of your email/text.
Bahahahaha BM used to do this all the time. She would text him and then 2 minutes later text again. And then 5 minutes later text again demanding to know why he refused to answer her. DH finally got so pissed one day he responded, "Some of us actually work and can't sit by their phones waiting for a text. You should try it sometime". Not the most mature response but it definitely shut her up for awhile.
WTF BM - Pay the damn child support!! You see your kids about 4 days a month. Stop telling the kids that their father and I are bad people wanting money from her. I know you don't want them around, but you're their mom, so just suck it up and pretend you want them for 4 days a month.
WTF step-kids - you're old enough to realize what child support is and old enough to realize that all the stuff you need and ask for costs money. Do you really think your father and I awful for expecting your deadbeat mom to help pay for your things? And when are you going to realize your mother doesn't walk on water?
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WTF BM--- How can you POSSIBLY accuse DH of not co parenting? OHHHH I know...because he was at work and didn't respond within 2 seconds of your email/text.
psycho @#$@#$
WTF BM!! U can't BUY your way out of court!!!
and either you want to see your kids or you don't!! Quit playing with their emotions!!! Do you not understand that they are almost to the point that they don't even care anymore! and you want to blame everyone for making you look like a bad mom? That's all YOU!!
My Loves= SD 18 SS 16 SS13 DD13 DS10 SD6 SD5
WTF people looking at our house?! You can see it's on an effing slope! Stop coming by and then saying the house is great but the lot is too steep! ANDALSO, this is a hilly part of town. No one lives here for the nice flat backyards! We live here for the schools.
BM, you don't even work and all your kids are in school during the day. You have plenty of time to yourself while they are gone. Your house is a disaster so you obviously don't spend your day cleaning. You can't tell SS that you will spend more time with him after you are done having your 'me time.' Your children are still young so stop saying now that they are older you deserve time to yourself. He is 10! You have time to do it. You are choosing not to. It has been over 3 years since you did anything with just your son. If you can't find time for SS now, you never will.
DH, I get that you are super busy with work and all of your work projects, but I'm tired of making excuses for you. SS is your child and one day will realize you are NOT making him a priority. You have missed some of his baseball games because you were too tired from your busy life to attend.
I get that you were both teenagers when you had him, and feel like you grew up too fast. But both of you chose to have a child, and now I feel over burdened by the fact that I can't let this poor kid down because his parents won't step up. He's going to be a teenager one day soon and won't give you the time of day. Can't you just try to appreciate that he is asking for your time now?
Wendi, I'm still brand new and I was up in arms for you. You are far more generous then dink deserves.
WTF BM & BD,
Why did you both decide to be difficult about summer on the same exact day?
BD- you suck for never letting DD do anything she wants on your time and claiming she can't because you already have plans to let your mom watch her that week. It's one freaking weekend out of the month you get her and I gave several options so you didn't loose time including extending your month. And why is your mom even watching her on the weekend??? That's usually the only time you actually have her during your month since she bounces around between your mom, your BD, SM's mom, ect. Had I known about the date in APRIL I could have requested that weekend and there would have been nothing you could have done, but I didn't know the camp dates then. Actually, put your child first for once. I feel like just requesting a weekend out of your month from here on out just to spite you. Now all the other kids get to go to church camp and DD doesn't.
BM- DH already went over this with you once. SD is aware that we are getting them in June for the month, not July. DH specifically told her the weekend she got out of school (this coming weekend). Stop texting saying SD thought July and wants to come in July. We know she doesn't want to come in July when DD isn't here anyway. YOU are just making up crap after you agreed to do June. DD and SD actually like being home at the same time. This has been discussed multiple times with the girls individually. We will also still have SKs on the weekends in July when DD is not here. We are already letting you pick her up to go to graduation for a friend on Sunday and return her afterward. We actually work around what SD wants to do.
I don't know what world these women live in, but GEEZE LOUISE they are something.
I just saw that. This is the biggest W.T.F. seriously lurkers. Sit down and be quiet on this one.
I can most definitely relate to this! But BM only calls like this when she wants to change something or demand something I should say She will call and leave literally 20 vm's in one day each one making her sound more idiotic and just wanting to fight. .. and then cancel her weekend anyways! so exhausting.
My Loves= SD 18 SS 16 SS13 DD13 DS10 SD6 SD5
WTF lawyer - call me!!! I'm dying to know what happened at court this morning! (I know it will take a while to hear anything but I'm soooo impatient! I pretty much just want to know if BD even showed....)
WTF hand - what's your deal? I've gone to the hand specialist 4 times now and each time she gives me a different variation of steroids, shots, oral, cream ointment. Now I'm waiting on the rheumatologist to call to schedule and appointment. One finger joint is extremely painful, swells up easily, and is stiff a lot of the time and the hand specialist is stumped. I just want someone to figure it out so I don't constantly hurt...
agreed, I don't get to come around often but I definitely know what the deal is with Dink, I read that lurker response and was all WTF you're obviously new!
Sorry, I know I jumped all over one of those chicks. I am not even going to bother responding to the other ignorant lurker. I feel like if you're lurking, that means you have nothing valuable or informative to add. So keep quiet and just lurk.
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WTF BM? K is 7, she does not need a consultation to see if she needs braces yet. Are. You. KIDDING me?! And how about this, when you are willing to pay your half of orthodontia, we'll talk. Until then, shut up and keep living with your mother, wasting your money on tattoos and drinking. And quit complaining about how much my husband and I pay for my Crossfit each month and how we should be paying you more and how "unfair" the system is. We both work to afford our rent/car payments/groceries/utilities and other expenses. If we choose to spend $180 a month on my Crossfit, that's our choice. Shut up and and actually work more hours if you want more money. It's totally ok to actually earn money and not just have it handed to you.
WTF Mom? Quit trying to make me feel guilty about you not seeing the kids as often as you'd like. You have a car and a driver's license, be pro active and come see them. Don't put it on me to drive them to you, I already have an overflowing load of PTA/school/family/work stuff.
WTF PJ? Stopping with all the excessive pooping. We finally have your weight under control and now you've decided to literally crap all that away? Oh, and if you sleep for more than 3 hours, that would be great.
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Bahahahaha BM used to do this all the time. She would text him and then 2 minutes later text again. And then 5 minutes later text again demanding to know why he refused to answer her. DH finally got so pissed one day he responded, "Some of us actually work and can't sit by their phones waiting for a text. You should try it sometime". Not the most mature response but it definitely shut her up for awhile.
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WTF BM - Pay the damn child support!! You see your kids about 4 days a month. Stop telling the kids that their father and I are bad people wanting money from her. I know you don't want them around, but you're their mom, so just suck it up and pretend you want them for 4 days a month.
WTF step-kids - you're old enough to realize what child support is and old enough to realize that all the stuff you need and ask for costs money. Do you really think your father and I awful for expecting your deadbeat mom to help pay for your things? And when are you going to realize your mother doesn't walk on water?