Sad (not pg related)

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• healz413 member

  June 2013

  I'm so sorry to hear this. Losing a pet is so extremely hard.
  
  Sending you lots of supportive vibes!

  ****loss discussed*****
  
  We're queer. I'm 33, have severe stage 4 endo, and had both fallopian tubes removed. My love ("Manada" on the boards, 32) was diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve. We did Partner IVF (my eggs, her uterus). We lost our twins Tavin and Casey at 21 weeks gestation.
  
  Our IUIs
  with @Manada: IUI# 1-7 (December 2012- September 2013) all BFN. Tried natural, femara, clomid, puregon/follistim, clomid and menopur combo, both the ovidrel and HCG triggers.
  
  Our IVFs:
  IVF #1 my eggs November/December 2013: Cancelled IVF due to poor response
  
  IVF #2 my eggs/Manada's uterus January/February 2014
  BCPs and lupron overlap Stimmed: 1/22-2/2: Bravelle and Menopur (dosage ranged from B300 and M150 to B375 and M150 to B300 and M225)
  2/4 retrieved 10 eggs. Endo was much worse than expected. Only 3 eggs fertilized; February 7 transferred two day 3 embryos, froze one. All great condition.
  BFP eve of 6dp3dt; Beta 1 (11dp3dt): 110; Beta 2 (13dp3dt): 175; Beta 3 (15dp3dt): 348; Beta 4 (19dp3dt): 2222; Beta 5 (21dp3dt): 4255
  1st ultrasound (3/6  6w 1d): TWINS!!!! Twin A measuring 6w1d with a heartbeat of 118bpm. Twin B measuring 6w0d with a heartbeat of 113bpm. 

  
  ***July 18, 2014 we lost our beautiful babies at 21 weeks gestation. They were born too early. Tavin Sara T. and Casey Elizabeth T. are beautiful and precious and we will love them and miss them forever.***
  
  FET #1 December 2014

  Intralipid infusion on Dec 10. Transfer of 1 day 3 nine-cell embryo into my uterus on Dec. 19. (acupuncture immediately before and after)

  BFP on Dec. 27; Beta 1 Jan 2 (14dp3dt): 665, Beta 2 Jan 4 (16dp3dt): 1859, Beta 3 Jan 6 (18dp3dt): 4449, Beta 4 Jan 10 (22dp3dt): 12,251.
  

  
  

  
  

  
    

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• KH826 member

  June 2013

  Oh I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I believe that pets are as much our family as our human family, and I can only imagine how you must be feeling. Sending you lots of support and hugs!

  Me - 30, My wife - 31 , Together for 10 yrs - Married August 2012

  5 medicated IUIs w/ RE (March - July 2013) = BFN

  Fresh IVF Cycle in September 2013 resulted in 18 mature eggs, 16 fertilized, 12 made it to day 5. Transfer of 2 Grade A blastocysts on 9/15/13, and 10 embryos in the freezer!      *****BFP on 9/25/13 - betas: @10dp5dt = 232; @12dp5dt = 465; @15dp5dt = 1,581   *********William George born June 4, 2014*********

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• mwagner25 member

  June 2013

  So sorry for your loss. We will be thinking about you.

  Same sex couple, Married 8/6/11
  Baby Oliver born 11/27/13
  
  TTC stats with donor sperm...
  IUI #1 with trigger, 1/4/13 - BFN
  IUI #2 with trigger, 2/1/13 BFN
  IUI #3 with tigger, 2/28/12 BFP EDD 11/21/13
  

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• clairmeij member

  June 2013

  Ohhh, that is terribly sad for your family! Our pets are definitely a part of our family, and losing them is just like a human loss. Sending some positive energy your way.

  IUI #1 - 10 April 2012 unmonitored and unmedicated with RE 

  IUI #2 - 05 May 2012 unmonitored and unmedicated with RE 

  IUI #3 - 05 July 2012 unmonitored and unmedicated with RE 

  IUI #4 - 30 August 2012 medicated and monitoredLetrozole and Ovidrel Trigger 

  IUI #5 - 27 September 2012 Letrozole 

  BFP! 9 October 2012 Betas:- 12DPO 16; 16DPO 96; 18DPO 315

  
  

  Baby Alarico born on 28 June 2013!!

  
  

  
  

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• Manada member

  June 2013

  I am so sorry to hear this B&C.   Sad sad day....
  

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  queer couple - 32 (me) & 33 (my love) years old - donor sperm,
  
  Our IF/TTC journey since Nov 2012.
  
  Me: dx of DOR in Nov. 2012. Low AMH, AFC - 6, Normal FSH, SS-A (RO) Antibodies (Autoimmune issues), tubes clear, Sono (November 2013) NORMAL! <p>
  
  7 IUI's - December 2012-September 2013.  Medicated, Injected, Triggered.... all BFN.
  
  My Love:  (the amazing @Healz413)
  Normal AMH & FSH, AFC ~27, blocked tube dx'd via HSG in 2012.   Hydrosalpinx & ovarian cyst dx'd in May 2013.
  dx of Stage IV Endo & bilateral salpinectomy in June 2013.  
  
  
  
  Partner IVF#1a- December 2013 - H's eggs, my Ute - CANCELLED due to low response
  Partner IVF #1b - February 2014 - H's eggs, my Ute - ER February 4 (10 retrieved, 3 fertilized), Transfer Feb 7 of one Grade 1 and one Grade 2 day 3 embryos.  1 - Day 3, Grade 1 frosty saved.   BFP - 6dp3dt via FRER, Beta #1 - 110, Beta #2 175, Beta #3 - 348, Beta #4 - 2222!, Beta #5 - 4255.  Ultrasound (6w1d) - 2 heartbearts!  
  
  We lost our beautiful Twin baby girls on June 18, 2014.  Tavin Sara and Casey Elizabeth were born at 21 weeks gestation and were absolutely beautiful, precious, amazing babies.  We miss our daughters every day and love them with all our hearts.
  
  
  
  

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• Jazibel member

  June 2013

  Oh I'm so sorry to hear about your kitty.  I'll be thinking about your family over the next few days  - take care
  

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• mollykelley member

  June 2013

  I am sorry about your kitty! I see in your profile pic how much you love your cat! Thinking of you.
  

  M&K met 8/2002 married 6/2012
  TTC with RE since March 2012
  3 missed O's, 6 IUIs = 1 BFP then 8 w M/C, 5 BFNs
  (2 unmedicated IUIs, 2 clomid IUI, 2 femara IUI)
  Shared maternity/partner IVF, transfer #1 BFP!
  EDD 11/28/13
  

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• MaryanneN member

  June 2013

  I am sorry about your loss. We understand how a pet becomes a part of your family . Our thoughts are with you on this sad day.

  33 Years Old
  
  Married 7/7/10 - Provincetown MA on the beach -
  
  Reception October 23, 2010 - Martha Clara Vinyards, North Fork Long Island
  
  5/12/13 - 5/13/13 IUI #1 - BFN
  6/14/13 - IUI #2 - BFN - 7/17/13 - IUI#3 - BFN Clomid cycle 100mg 08/13 - cancelled bc produced too many eggs. Clomid cycle 50mg 10/13 - IUI#4- BFN. Clomid. Switched Dr in November. IUI#5 11/20 and 11/21 with trigger and clomid. -TWW {\rtf1\ansi\ansicpg1252 {\fonttbl\f0\fswiss\fcharset0 Helvetica;} {\colortbl;\red255\green255\blue255;\red51\green51\blue51;\red255\green255\blue255;} \deftab720 \pard\pardeftab720\sl280\partightenfactor0 \f0\fs22 \cf2 \cb3 \expnd0\expndtw0\kerning0 \outl0\strokewidth0 \strokec2 }

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• ball.and.chain member

  June 2013

  Thanks everyone.  What an awful start to the week.  We're going to miss that grouchy little nugget a whole lot, and I appreciate your condolences.
  

  Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
  9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
  IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
  ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
  FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
  Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
  FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
  EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
  *Everyone welcome*
  
  

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• shelly2314 member

  June 2013

  " I don't imagine my hormones are making this any easier." LOL probably not! 

  I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. TTC is difficult, but then losing a beloved family member is just icing on the cake. You both are in my thoughts! 

  
  

  

  
  

  Married to M and proud mothers to Olivia and Elise (8/19/2014) and to our fur-babies: Capone (pitbull), Jax and Atticus (cats)
  

  
  

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• songbird31 member

  June 2013

  What sad news!!!! We are HUGE pet people and I can't imagine how you're feeling right now. Definitely take time to mourn your beloved cat.

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