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Also - Social Media?

swanckswanck
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Last question.

Are any of you FB friends with BF?  

If not - have you looked for them on FB?  Would you friend them if you could?

And.
If you are/will be - will you let your lo's see their profile/pictures?


Just trying to get a sense of adoption in a social media generation!




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Re: Also - Social Media?

  • MayDayGirlMayDayGirl member
    Yes to both Bp's, BUT only with a separate account just for them.
    Married on 3.20.2004. It took 30 month, 2 failed adoptions and IVF for our first miracle. We have had 9 foster kids since he was born and started the domestic adoption process when he was 10 month old, we had 4 failed matches in that time. After our daughter was born we brought her home and spent 2 weeks fearing we might lose her because of complications that came up. But Praise God all went through and she is ours forever! Expecting again after IVF Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • lafayettegirllafayettegirl member
    We have a semi open adoption. We have not connected to birth parents on social media and will not. We also do not post pictures of DS on social media where his face can be seen.
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  • swanckswanck
    imageMayDayGirl:
    Yes to both Bp's, BUT only with a separate account just for them.

    Do/Will you let your LO's see the profiles when they are older?
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  • steph196steph196 member
    We are friends with BM on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, but not BF. He requested us on Facebook, but I don't plan to accept his request.
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  • MayDayGirlMayDayGirl member
    imageswanck:
    imageMayDayGirl:
    Yes to both Bp's, BUT only with a separate account just for them.

    Do/Will you let your LO's see the profiles when they are older?


    Not for a loooong time. They both post pretty inappropriate stuff and bf is in a gang.
    Married on 3.20.2004. It took 30 month, 2 failed adoptions and IVF for our first miracle. We have had 9 foster kids since he was born and started the domestic adoption process when he was 10 month old, we had 4 failed matches in that time. After our daughter was born we brought her home and spent 2 weeks fearing we might lose her because of complications that came up. But Praise God all went through and she is ours forever! Expecting again after IVF Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • Dr.LorettaDr.Loretta member
    No for both. BF is out of the picture and his name is too common to find on FB. Despite our semi-open arrangement with DD's BM, we don't communicate via FB.
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