Hello,
My 12 month still wakes up once every night. She takes a bottle in her crib and goers back down on her own, but her pedi said she should be sleeping 10 hours straight. I've tried feeding her more at night, ignoring her cries, and nothing works, I fee lso lost and I don't know what else to do. And how long is ok to let her cry? any advice would help. TIA!
Re: 12 month old will not sleep thru nite, am i alone, pls help?
I think 12 months is plenty old to CIO. That being said, there is a growth spurt and Im assuming LO is either learning to walk or still perfecting the skill. We're back to waking up 1-2x a night and it sucks.
After we get through this growth spurt, walking and his 12mo shots, and he still isnt sleeping, we will do something then.
My oldest didn't sleep through the night until he turned 2 and we did CIO with him numerous times. Most of the time he would wake up and play in his crib and talk to himself for 15-30min then I back to sleep. There wasn't much we could do when he did that....we just left him alone and tried to go back to sleep while he chattered to himself.
I would try CIO to lose the tittle but I wouldn't automatically expect that LO will magically sleep through the night after that. Some kids do, some kids don't. My oldest is a great sleeper now but I used to think he would never sleep through the night. DS2 still doesn't sleep through the night (not waking to eat, just wakes to get comfy call out to us, get a paci, listen to his crib soother) and we've done CIO a few times. Heck, sometimes I don't STTN as an adult so I definitely don't expect it of my kids. I expect them to know nighttime is for sleeping and that we don't get up to play or eat but if they wake for a few, no big deal in my book.
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It's actually very normal and healthy for babies to sleep 10 to 12 hours straight. All babies I know do..
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If your little one were getting up and staying up, i'd want to change something. But taking a bottle and going back to sleep is no big deal. As long as your LO is getting enough sleep total, one MOTN wake up is no big deal.
Personally, I don't understand why a baby's sleep habits is of any issue to a doctor...it's not really a medical issue, as long as they aren't sleep deprived, which your certainly isn't.