TTC After a Loss

Intro (older child mentioned)

I usually lurk and then just randomly reply to posts, but it seems like this board is a lot more organized and has a lot of regulars, so I thought I would formally say hello and introduce myself. I don't know if I count as TTC yet, because I haven't finished having this *super fun* miscarriage, but we plan to try again right away. 

I have a 4 year-old boy, a very loving and supportive ex-husband (yes, you read that right), two part-time not-officially-stepsons, and a serious boyfriend with whom I will be living starting June 15. We both work in tech in the Bay Area. Shocker.

This miscarriage was a complete surprise (aren't they all?) and as I mentioned above, hasn't finished running its course yet. Boo. Sucks. But I like to think I have a pretty good attitude about stuff that I can't change, and the doctor said I should feel free to try again as soon as I feel mentally ready.

So, hi! Can I come play? 

Re: Intro (older child mentioned)

  • I'm so sorry for your loss. (((hugs)))

    Welcome to the board. Check out our blog if you haven't already - it is in the green header on the front page and in my siggy. We are a tight knit community and that really cares about each other. These ladies are wonderful and have given me so much support.

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  • So sorry for your loss :( Welcome to the board. I hope your stay is short!
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    BFP #1: 10/24/2012  EDD 7/3/13, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E 
    DX: Septate Uterus. Septum resection 6/4/13
    BFP #2: 12/20/2013  EDD 9/1/14, missed m/c @ 7weeks, D&E
    BFP #3: 5/26/2014 EDD 2/7/15, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E- DX Trisomy22
    RPL, Karyotyping, and SHG: All Normal
    BFP #4: 9/6/14 EDD 5/16/15 Praying for our RAINBOW!
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  • So very sorry for your loss! I like your attitude! It's hard to be positive during a depressing time in your life. I commend you for that.  Also welcome to the board!! *HUGS*


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    BFP#2 7/10/13 - EDD 3/21/14- Eli's Here!!
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    I'm sorry for your loss, welcome to the board ::hugs::



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    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
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  • I'm very sorry for your loss, welcome to the board. Hugs to you as you deal with your miscarriage. 
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  • Hello and welcome - sorry for your loss. I do think you have a positive attitude - I am trying to have one of those as well although there are still the bad days! I hope your stay here is very short.
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    BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d

    BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11

    BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d

    BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13

     

    BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14 

  • Welcome! I'm so sorry for your loss and hope you do not have to stay long at all!

    married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
    BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
    mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13

    BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14 

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  • imagemayonegg:
    I'm so sorry for your
    loss. hugs

    Welcome to the board.
    Check out our blog if you haven't already it is in the green header on the
    front page and in my siggy. We are a tight knit community and that really cares
    about each other. These ladies are wonderful and have given me so much support.

    Perfectly said. Welcome.

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  • Welcome.  I'm so sorry for your loss.

    There is a TTA Check In you are welcome to join as you wait to be cleared for take off.  There are several ladies who are benched for now as well. 

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    BFP#4 8.27.13 (EDD 5.6.14) DD born 4.23.14

     

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  • Welcome to the board. So sorry for your loss. Hope your stay here is short and sweet.
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  • I'm very sorry to hear about your loss.  Welcome to the board.
  • I am so sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board.

    Btw, my husband and I are both in tech too - though we're on the opposite side of the country :)

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    BFP with #1 (twins!) 11/18/2011 - missed m/c at 8weeks3days; d&c 1/19/2012; myomectomy to remove 18cm+,10cm & 5cm fibroids 4/2012; TTC again 7/2012; BFP #2 (twins) 11/13/2012; missed m/c at 7weeks;
    BFP #3: baby girl born 3/5/2014

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. Big hugs! Welcome. I hope your stay is short but sweet. There are checkins for those who are trying to avoid [TTA] and ladies in waiting that are wonderful.
    TTC #1 as of Feb. 2013
    BFP on Mar. 4, 2013, DX with MMC (blighted ovum) at 8 weeks, D&C
    TTC again as of May 2013
    BFP on June 24, 2013, EED March 12, 2014
    Diagnosed with endometriosis, PCOS, heterozygous MTHFR and positive for ANA

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