At my appointment last night my midwife told me that at my next appointment they will do a group B strep test and would also like to do a cervical check. My sister who is 4 weeks ahead of me in her pregnancy said she just got her cervix checked and it was absolutely horrible so now I'm scared! Have any of you had your cervix checked at this point? Do you plan on allowing checks?
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Re: Cervical checks?
The 2x my doctor did a cervical check on me it hurt. I'd much rather have a Pap!
But then when I got to the hospital and the nice L&D nurses were doing them, it went much better.
The key is to relax. Relax and take slow deep breaths and it will be so much easier. The L&D nurses were really good at going slow and making me relax and then it was no big deal at all.
This. I don't see the use of them if there are no complications.
My doc didn't start them until 39 weeks last time and they didn't bother me.
However, I personally would decline this early on. It's really not going to tell you much and can increase the risk for infection. You're going to go into labor when you go into labor. Doesn't really matter if you're not dilated at all now or already dilated to a 3, but that's just my opinion.
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I had one when I spent a few hours in triage and I was terrified. I did everything but flat out refuse to have one. I swear to you, afterwards, I looked at the Dr and nurse and said "That's it?!? What the he!! is everyone complaining about?!?" I'm not kidding, I didn't feel a single thing. And I have a pretty low pain tolerance. (I was freaking pissed off after my IV was placed on my next L&D visit.)
Maybe it's more painful if you're actually dialating, but honestly, I think fear is the #1 factor in the pain that most women experience with these. Try to relax, and let the curiousity of knowing if you're progressing over ride the fear of the possible discomfort.
Also, you can always refuse. Especially if you're term and/or have no reason to be concerned about early labor. They don't really tell you anything. Best of luck to you!
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This.
Last time my midwife did one at 37 weeks because DH had an emergency business trip come up last minute and he wanted to make sure it was ok to go. From that check she thought I was "very favorable to go into labor early and on my own".
I ended up 2 weeks overdue, never progressed beyond 2cm and ended up in an emergency c/s.
I am not allowing checks until active labor.
This is not true for everyone, but for me last time they were HORRIBLE. I'm hoping, if you choose to do this, that they are not horrible for you. You can decline the cervix check if you want to. They don't tell you much of anything anyway.
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They don't HAVE to hurt though. It is highly dependent on the OB. The male OB who checked me recently was so freaking rough I was clenching in pain and my body was automatically scooting up the table. BUT my old OB could check me without a problem and it was only slightly uncomfortable.
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