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December 2010 Moms
Serendipity117
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Hold me...
Serendipity117
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I am in some serious denial. 
We weren't trying so this is a huge surprise.
I poas today because I've been having 23-25 day cycles the last couple months and today was day 27. We've been using condoms since I can't use birth control pills anymore because of the liver lesions so I'm not sure what happened. One broke I guess or maybe we had a defective one, I don't know. I had my gallbladder out earlier this month, middle of my cycle, and wasn't pregnant then so I know it happened this month.
Don't get me wrong, I'm thrilled for another baby but I am terrified at the same time. Hold me until this sinks in.
Oh, and I don't know how to tell DH... Any ideas?
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Re: Hold me...
oh my god! wow! congratulations!
Are you the first Dec10 mom to have TWO since the Dec 10 baby? I think so! (From separate pregnancies)
I don't have any advice...but I agree that my reaction would be "hold me!"
Congratulations!
Thanks. We were going to talk about ttc in the fall, so I guess it's just a little sooner than planned. At least the age gap is bigger than O and G's, lol.
WHOA, that is crazy news! Wonderful, though! Congratulations!
Oh shiit girl! I would freak the eff out if I got a + right now so I imagine you might be too.
Deep breaths, deep breaths...
But really - Congrats!
He is going to freak out. Not in a bad way but it'll definitely take him a while to get excited. He'll be in denial until I have an u/s and can actually see proof.
I actually saved the tests so he could see them because I'm sure he'll think I'm messing with him, lol.
Oh my gosh! That is a surprise!!!
Well, congratulations. I can see why you are scared though. Will this be 3 under 4 for you??? wow!
I might just show him the stick and say "What do you think of this?" haha
OMG holy crap...thats crazy! Congrats!
I thought I was KTFU and I took 2 HPT last week but thankfully I got AF this week. JFC, I was so scared! We don't know if we want anothr LO and if we do, it won't be for another 4 or 5 years.
But anyway, congrats to you guys! I have no idea how you should tell DH lol. Just give him the positive HPT I think.
If it were me I'd probably tell DH by breaking down and crying! haha!
You'll have to update us on how he takes the news!
Congrats!
Congratulations!!! And oops! Now I'm terrified of our condom method... I guess I would just hand DH the pregnancy test if it were me. Did you tell him you suspected you were pregnant before testing?
Um, no,I did not. I didn't want to scare him if I didn't have to. He asked over the weekend when AF would be arriving and at that point it was "any day now". We haven't had sex since the weekend so I'm assuming he thinks AF showed up.
I'm debating whether to tell him before the kids go to bed or after.
ETA: I'm going to guess we are in the extreme minority for condom mishaps. I might have to do some research on statistics.
DD 12.2010
omg, wow, congrats!
I remember that feeling of surprise very well! Best of luck to you!
Wow, congrats! I can totally understand being freaked out -- that's a lot to take in -- but you're going to be fine.
As for telling your H, I am no help -- I am the sincerely uncreative wife who, both times, just walked out of the bathroom with a positive test and showed it to him in stunned silence, LOL.
BFP #2 5/27/12. EDD 2/1/13. m/c and D&C 6/21/12.
My little man at 0-1-2
hi and congrats!! i feel like ive been out of the loop being offline for so long and this is what i saw first!
but....three young babes! they are going to be the best of friends, its going to be great! sleep sleep sleep while you can mama!!
i think we are going to try for a third in the fall, so ill be looking for advice